الأحد، 30 يوليو 2017

Translation of Sahih Muslim, Book 22:

The Book of Sacrifices (Kitab Al-Adahi)


INTRODUCTION
Religion, at its highest and best, is the devotion of the total self, through service and adoration, to the Almighty Who controls the universe. In this sense all the manifold rites, consecrations, and purifications, offerings and sacred feasts, all the working of asceticism and morality are only the indirect expression of the inner experience of religion-the experience of trust, surrender, yearning and enthusiasm. Sacrifice, whether that of wealth or desires, is the practical proof of man's devotion to his Creator. It is in fact religion in action.
The Holy Qur'an expresses this attitude of mind and heart in the following words:" Say: Truly, my prayer and my service of sacrifice, and my living and my dying are for God (alone), the Sustainer of all the worlds, in Whose Divinity none has a share. Thus I have been bidden-and I am foremost among those who surrender themselves unto Him" (vi. 162-163).
The 'Id al-Adha is commemorative of that unparalleled act of devotion of that noble soul. Abraham (peace be upon him), who, in obedience to the Command of his Lord, readily offered the life of his son Isma'il. The Holy Qur'an narrates this soul- stirring event in these words:" And when he (Isma'il) attained the age to assist him in his (Abrahm's) work, he (Abraham) said: O my son! I see in vision that I offer thee in sacrifice. Now see what is thy view. The son said: O my father, do as thou art commanded. Thou wilt find me, if God so wills, patient. So when they both had surrendered themselves to (Allah), and he laid him down prostrate on his forehead (for sacrifice), We called out to him: O Abraham, thou hast indeed fulfilled the vision. Thus do We reward the doers of good. Surely this is a manifest trial. And We ransom- ed him with a great sacrifice. And We left (this blessing) for him among the later generations. Peace be upon Abraham I Thus indeed do We reward those who do good; for he was one of Our believing servants" (xxxvii. 102-111)
In the above-quoted verses 'axim (great), the adjective qualifying" Sacrifice." may be understood both in literal and figurative sense. In literal sense it implies that a big ram was substituted. The figurative sense is even more important. It was indeed a great and momentous occasion, when two men with concentrated will ranged themselves in ranks of those to whom self-sacrifice in the service of God was the supreme thing in life. Similarly, the words" thou hast indeed fulfilled the vision" show that it was not in fact the act of slaughtering which was needed for the fulfilment of the vision, but it was the attitude of submission and surrender, an attitude of preparedness to sacrifice one's all in the path of Allah. that was demanded of Abraham and his illustrious son, and they eminently stood this test.
Readiness to Sacrifice One's Life. In Islam the act of sacrifice is the symbol of a Muslim's readiness to lay down his life, and to sacrifice all his interests and desires in the cause of truth. The purpose of sacrifice is not fulfilled only by shedding the blood of an animal, but it is really fulfilled when a man submits himself completely to the command of Allah. This has been clearly laid down in Sura Hajj, verse 37;" Not their flesh, nor their blood reaches Allah, but it is the piety from you that reaches Him." This verse eloquently speaks of the fact that sacrifice in Islam is nothing else than a natural expression of homage and gratitude to the Creator. It is the spirit of willing devotion and cheerful obedience underlying sacrifices that is accepted by Allah Who is the Fountainhead of all morality. It is only piety of heart. nobility of soul and righteousness of conduct, that is acceptable to Him. It is essentially symbolic, an external symbol of dedication, devotion to Allah. Tafsir Ibn Kathir stresses this point:" The man who offers sacrifice should keep this fact uppermost in his mind that the most important motive behind this is the willing submission to Allah" ' (Vol. VI, p. 183).
Such truths, so self-evident to the Muslim readers, needed a clear and emphatic enunciation in view of the horrible misconceptions which had crowded round the act of sacrifice before Islam.
" Throughout the Semitic field," observes Robertson Smith, in his well known book. The Religion of the Semitics, the fundamental idea of sacrifice was that of communion between the God and his worshipper by joint participation in the living flesh and blood of a sacred victim" (p. 49).
" The Greeks also looked upon sacrifice as a 'Communion feast' with the Divinity, in which the God and his people became of one flesh by partaking together of the flesh of the victim; the animal was regarded, as in some degree, divine, as having the divine spirit incarnate in it. Among the Babylonians the gods feast in heaven, they eat the offerings, they scent the savour, like flies do they gather themselves together with the offerers" (Hastings, Encyclopedia of Rdigion & Ethics, Article" Sacrifice" ).
The Holy Qur'an strikes at the very root of such wrong concepts of sacrifice and asserts that" it is neither the flesh nor the blood of (animals) that reaches Allah, but it is your piety that reaches Him," for God does not stand In need of food or blood. What He, in fact, desires is the devotion and piety of our hearts. and, as a symbol of such offer, the visible institution of sacrifice has been instituted. The Holy Qur'an has further elucidated the main parpose of the institution of sacrifice." For every people did We appoint rites (of sacrifice) that they might celebrate the name of God over the sustenance He gave them from animals (fit for food). But your God is One God. Sub- mit then your wills to him (in Islam).... The sacrificial camels We have made for you as among the symbols from God. In them is (much) good for you So mention the name of Allah on them standing in a row. Then when they fall down on their sides, eat of them, feed the contented one and the beggar. Thus have We made them subservient to you that you may be grateful" (xxii. 34-38).
The Qur'an testifies to the historical fact that whatever may be the outward symbols of sacrifice, it has been accepted in one form or another by all the nations of the world. It had been a fundamental element of both Jewish and Gentile religions, and Christianity. It had been corrupted by many wrong practices and been overlaid by many wrong notions before the advent of Islam. Islam purifies it from all wrong notions and practices connected with it, and makes it explicitly clear that the act of sacrifice is an outward symbol of man's readiness to lay down his life, if required, and to surrender all his interests in the cause of truth and righteousness.
The words" We have made them (subservient) to you" have a very wide significance. A Muslim has been awakened to the realisation of the fact that if they offer as a sacrifice an animal over which they hold control, it is their bounden duty to lay down their lives in the way of Allah, Who is not only their Master, but also their Creator and Sustainer and Who. therefore, exercises a far greater authority over them than they do over the animals. This should be the true motive of sacrifice, and it is with this spirit that this act should be performed.
The Qur'anic words" To Him is acceptable observance of duty on your part" make it abundantly clear that the prevalent idea of atonement that" it is the blood that maketh an atonement for the soul" (Leviticus; 17: 11) has no foundation in Islam. The expiation of sin in Islam rests entirely on the good deeds of men, repentance of the Winners and the Forgiving and Merciful nature of God 'This fact cuts the ground from under the feet of any theory of an atoning sacrifice.
The opening verse" For every people did We appoint rites (of sacrifice) that they might celebrate the name of God over the beast cattle wherewith He bath provided them," speaks of the fact that the very idea of human sacrifice is repugnant to the true religion and Allah has never given it sanction.
This practice of human sacrifice was not uncommon before Islam." Both on the mainland of Greece and in the Greek colonies human sacrifice was practised, usually as a means towards expulsion of evil" (Encydopaedia Britannica, Article'on" Sacrifice" ). it occupied a prominent place in the ritual of the mother goddesses of ancient times.
" The ordinary form of sacrifice," says E. O. James, in his famous book, The origins of Sacrifice," consisted in stripping the victim of his ornaments, stretching him over the convex sacrificial stones and while fare priests held his arms, legs, head, the high priests or sacrificer cut open his breast with a flint or obsidian knife, and tore out the heart. This was held up to the sun to provide it with nourishment, before it was cast into a basin of Copal placed in a position to enable the blood and incense to ascend to the gods. The body was hurled down the steps of the temple to the court where it was seized by the priest or by the warrior who captured the victim. Some times a solemn feast was then held on the flesh, the skin having first been removed to be worn ceremonially by men who seem to have acquired thereby the fertilising nd health-giving qualities of the victim. Some of the blood was carried to certain temples and smeared on the hips of the images of gods" (pp. 84-6).
Islam has not only exterminated the very idea of human sacrifice, but has completely ended all such inhuman practices which were very common with the people before Islam. The Holy Qur'an makes a pointed reference to the fact that this sacrifice of animals is commemorative of Abraham's offer of his son's life at the Command of Allah, who was substituted by a ram, and it has been perpetuated by Islam. It is narrated that once the Companions of the Holy Prophet (may peace be upon him) asked him about the sacrifice. He replied:" This is commemorative Sunnah of your father Abraham" (vide Ibn Kathir, Vol. III, p. 221). That this practice of sacrifice was already prevalent amongst the people before Islam can be well borne out by the fact that we find clear references to it in the poetry of pre-Islamic Arabia. The well. known poet Umayya observes:
Abraham was one who would fulfil the pledges and offer sacrifices for Allah's sake.
Thus he offered the life of his only son whose separation and whose risk of life, he could not bear.
He said," O my son I have pledged you to Allah.
May I sacrifice my life for you!
Be steadfast and firm."
He had hardly taken off the shirt of his son, when Allah substituted Isma'il by a stout ram.
Not only this practice of sacrifice has been preserved in Islam, but even the way of Abraham's has been declared to he one of righteousness and truthfulness:
" Say: Behold, my Lord has guided me to a way that is straight-a religion of Right Path-the Path (trodden) by Abraham, who was wholly devoted to God, and was not of those who ascribe divinity to any beside him" (vi. 161).
Even the Millat has been assigned a name after the name of Abraham:
" He hath selected you and hath not placed upon you any hardship in religion-the religion of your father, Abraham. He named you Muslims before this, and in this, that the Messenger may be a witness to you and you may he witnesses to mankind" (xxii. 78).
Historical Continuity, The constant reference to the earlier Prophets and the Qur'anic testimony to their righteousness and the preservation of some of their religious practices have been done to awaken the people to the realisation of a fundamental fact, i. e. the fact of the historical continuity of religious experience. The Muslims have been asked to believe in that which has been revealed unto Prophet Muhammad (may peace be upon him) as well as in that which was revealed before him. Life-so the Qur'an teaches us-is not a series of disconnected parts but a continuous, organic process: and this law applies also to the law of the mind, of which man's religious experience (in its cumulative sense) is a part. To make religious experience more living, to set Allah the Ever-living with loving vividness before the eyes of living men, to make them feel Him as actually and eternally present in their lives, man needs a path, clear-cut path, lightened with glories of the Messengers of Allah-a path on which one should not feel lonely but the strength of comradeship of those noble souls upon whom Allah has bestowed His choicest blessings.
A few words may be said about the way how an animal should be slaughtered according to the teachings of Islam. Three are the aims which should be kept before the mind while slaughtering the animal:
It should be slaughtered by reciting the name of Allah and glorifying Him.
It should be slaughtered with a sharp knife so that its jugular vein may be cut with the minimum possible pain and its skin should not be removed and limbs should not be cut so long as there is any sign of life in it.
The head should not be removed from the body abruptly but only the jugular vein should be cut so that even the last drop of blood flows out of its body. If the animal is beheaded with a stroke, the blood congeals in its veins which makes the flesh distasteful and pernicious to health.

Chapter 1: THE PROPER TIME FOR SACRIFICE

Book 022, Number 4818:
Jundab b. Sufyan reported: I was with Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) on the day of 'Id al-Adha. While he had not returned after having offered (the Id prayer) and finished it, he saw the flesh of the sacrificial animals which had been slaughtered before he had completed the prayer. Thereupon he (the Holy Prophet) said: One who slaughtered his sacrificial animal before his prayer or our prayer ('Id), he should slaughter another one in its stead, and he who did not slaughter, he should slaughter by reciting the name of Allah.

Book 022, Number 4819:
Jundab b. Sufyan reported: I was with Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) (on the occasion) of 'Id al-Adha. After he had completed the prayer with people, he found that the goats had been slaughtered, whereupon he said: He who slaughtered sacrificial animal before the prayer should slaughter a goat (again) in its stead and he who has not slaughtered he should slaughter it by reciting the name of Allah.

Book 022, Number 4820:
This hadith has been narrated on the authority of al-Aswad b. Qais with the same chain of transmitters.

Book 022, Number 4821:
Jundab al-Bajali reported: I saw Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) observing ('Id) prayer on the Day of Sacrifice (10th of Dhu'l-Hijja) and then delivering a sermon and he said: He who sacrificed the (animal) before offering ('Id) prayer, he should offer again in its stead, and he who did not sacrifice the animal should slaughter it by reciting the name of Allah.

Book 022, Number 4822:
This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Shu'ba through another chain of transmitters.

Book 022, Number 4823:
Al-Bara' reported: My maternal uncle Abu Burda sacrificed his animal before ('Id) prayer. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: That is a goat (slaughtered for the sake of) flesh (and not as a sacrifice on the day of Adha). He said: I have a lamb of six months. Thereupon he said: Offer it as a sacrifice, but it will not justify for anyone except you, and then said: He who sacrificed (the animal) before ('Id) prayer, he in fact slaughtered it for his own self, and he who slaughtered after prayer, his ritual of sacrifice became complete and he in fact observed the religious practice of the Muslims.

Book 022, Number 4824:
Al-Bara' b. 'Azib reported that his maternal'uncle Abu Burda b. Niyar sacrificed his animal earlier than the Holy Prophet (may peace be upon him) had sacrificed. Thereupon he said: Apostle of Allah, it is the day of meat and it is not desirable (to have longing for it and not to make use of it immediately), so I hastened in offering my animal as a sacrifice, so that I might feed my family and neighbours and my kith and kin. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Offer again your sacrifice. He said: Messenger of Allah, I have a small milch goat of less than one year, and that is better than two dry goats (from which only) meat (can be acquired). Thereupon he said: That is better than the two animals of sacrifice on your behalf, and the sacrifice of a goat, of less than six months shall not be accepted as a sacrifice on behalf of anyone after your (sacrifice).

Book 022, Number 4825:
Al-Bara' b. 'Azib reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) delivered an address on the day (of Nahr) in which he said: None of you should offer sacrifice of animals until he has completed the ('Id) prayer. Thereupon my maternal uncle said: Messenger of Allah, it is the day of meat, so it is not desirable (to keep my family in the state of longing). The rest of the hadith is the same.

Book 022, Number 4826:
Al-Bara' reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) having said: He who observes prayer like our prayer and turns his face towards our Qibla (in prayer) and who offers sacrifices (of animals) as we do, he must not slaughter the (animal as a sacrifice) until he has completed the prayer. Thereupon my maternal uncle said: Messenger of Allah, I have sacrificed the animal on behalf of my son. The Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) said: This is the thing in which you have made haste for your family. He said: I have a goat with me better than two goats. Thereupon he said: Sacrifice it for that is the best.

Book 022, Number 4827:
Al-Bara' b. 'Azib reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) having said: The first (act) with which we started our day (the day of 'Id-ul Adha) was that we offered prayer. We then returned and sacrificed the animals and he who did that in fact adhered to our Sunnah (practice). And he who slaughtered the (animal on that day before the 'Id prayer), for him (the slaughtering of animal was directed to the acquiring of) meat for his family, and there is nothing of the sort of sacrifice in it. It was Abu Burda b. Niyar who had slaughtered (the animal before the 'Id prayer). He said: I have a small lamb, of less than one year, but better than that of more than a year. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) qaid: Sacrifice it, but it will not suffice (as a sacrifice) for anyone after you.

Book 022, Number 4828:
A hadith like this has been narrated on the authority of al-Bara' b. 'Azib through another chain of transmitters.

Book 022, Number 4829:
al-Bara' b. 'Azib reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) addressed us on the day of Nahr after the ('Id) prayer. The rest of the hadith is the same.

Book 022, Number 4830:
Al-Bara' b. 'Azib reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) addressed us on the day of Nahr and said: None should sacrifice the animal unless he has completed the ('Id) prayer. A person said: I have a milch goat of less than one year, better than two fat goats. Thereupon he said: Sacrifice it, and no goat of less than a year of age will be accepted as sacrifice after you.

Book 022, Number 4831:
Al-Bara' b. 'Azib reported that Abu Burda slaughtered the animal as a sacrifice before the ('Id) prayer. Thereupon Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) said: Offer a substitute for it (since it does not absolve you of the responsibility of sacrifice). Thereupon he said: Allah's Messenger. I have nothing with me but a goat of less than six months. Shu'ba (one of the narrators) said: I think he (al-Bara' b. 'Azib also) said: And it is better than a goat of one year. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Make it a substitute for that (and sacrifice it), but it will not suffice for anyone (as a sacrifice) after you.

Book 022, Number 4832:
This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Shu'ba with the same chain of transmitters, but did not mention tht doubt (expressed in his statement) That is (the goat of less than a year) is better than a goat of more than one year.

Book 022, Number 4833:
Anas (b. Malik) reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) having said on the day of Nahr (Sacrifice): He who slaughtered (the animal as a sacrifice) before the ('Id) prayer. should repeat it (i. e. offer another animal). Thereupon a person stood up and said: Messenger of Allah, that is the day when meat is much desired, and he also made a mention of the need of his neighbour, and perhaps Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) attested it. He (the person who had sacrificed the animal before the 'Id prayer) said: I have a goat of less than one year of age with me and I like it more than two fleshy goats; should I offer it as a sacrifice? He permitted him to do so. He (the narrator) said: I do not know whether this permission was granted to anyone else besides him or not. Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) then turned towards two rams. and he slaughtered them, and the people' came to the goats and got them distributed amongst themselves (for offering them as sacrifice).

Book 022, Number 4834:
Anas b. Malik reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) offered the 'Id prayer and then delivered the sermon giving the command: He who slaughtered the animal before prayer should slaughter (another animal as a sacrifice). The rest of the hadith is the same.

Book 022, Number 4835:
Anas b. Malik reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) addressed us on the day of 'Id al-Adha. He smelt the odour of flesh and he prohibited thern from slaughtering (the animals before the 'Id prayer), saying: He who slaughtered the animals (before the 'Id prayer) should do that again (as it is not valid as a sacrifice).

Chapter 2: OF WHAT AGE THE ANIMAL IS TO BE SACRIFICED

Book 022, Number 4836:
Jabir reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: Sacrifice only a grown-up animal, unless it is difficult for you, in which case sacrifice a ram (of even less than a year, but more than six months' age).

Book 022, Number 4837:
Jabir b. 'Abdullah reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) led us in the 'Id prayer in Medina on the Day of Sacrifice. Some persons slaughtered their animals ahead of him under the impression that Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) had-already offered sacrifice. Thereupon Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) said: Those who had slaughtered their animals ahead of him should slaughter the other ones in their stead. And they should not sacrifice the animal before Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) had sacrificed (his animal)

Book 022, Number 4838:
Uqba b. 'Amir reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) gave the gifts of goats to be distributed amongst his Companions. They sacrificed them, but a lamb of one year of age was left. (Someone) made a mention of that to the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him), whereupon he said: You sacrifice it.

Book 022, Number 4839:
Amir al-Juhani reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) distributed sacrificial animals (amongst us for sacrificing them on 'Id al-Adha). So we sacrificed them. There fell to my lot a lamb of less than one year I said: Allah's Messenger, there has fallen to my lot a lamb (Jadha'a), whereupon he said: Sacrifice that.

Book 022, Number 4840:
This hadith has been transmitted on the authority of 'Uqba b. 'Amir al-Juhan with a slight change of wording.

Chapter 3: IT IS MERITORIOUS TO SACRIFICE THE ANIMAL WITH ONE'S OWN HAND AND SO IS MERITORIOUS THE RECITATION OF BISMILLAH (IN THE NAME OF ALLAH) AND TAKBIR (ALLAH-O-AKBAR)

Book 022, Number 4841:
Anas reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) sacrificed with his own hands two horned rams which were white with black markings reciting the name of Allah and glorifying Him (saying Allah-o-Akbar). He placed his foot on their sides (while sacrificing).

Book 022, Number 4842:
Anas reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) sacrificed two horned rams of white colour with black markings over them. He also stated: I saw him sacrificing them with his own hand and saw him placing his foot on their sides, and recited the name of Allah and Glorified Him.

Book 022, Number 4843:
Shu'ba reported: Qatada informed me that he had heard Anas saying that Allah's Messenger (may peace be npon him) sacrificed (the horned rams) and like that. I said: Did you (Qatada) hear from Anas? He said. Yes.

Book 022, Number 4844:
This hadith has been transmitted on the authority of Anas with a slight variation of wording.

Book 022, Number 4845:
'A'isha reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) commanded that a ram with black legs, black belly and black (circles) round the eyes should be brought to him, so that he should sacrifice it. He said to 'A'isha: Give me the large knife, and then said: Sharpen it on a stone. She did that. He then took it (the knife) and then the ram; he placed it on the ground and then sacrificed it, saying: Bismillah, Allah-humma Taqabbal min Muhammadin wa Al-i-Muhammadin, wa min Ummati Muhammadin (In the name of Allah," O Allah, accept [this sacrifice] on behalf of Muhammad and the family of Muhammad and the Umma of Muhammad" ).

Chapter 4: PERMISSIBILITY OF SLAUGHTERING THE ANIMAL WITH ANYTHING WHICH MAY MAKE ITS BLOOD FLOW, EXCEPT TOOTH, NAIL AND BONE

Book 022, Number 4846:
Rafi' b. Khadij is reported to have said: Allah's Messenger, we are going to encounter the enemy tomorrow, but we have no knives with us. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Make haste or be careful (in making arrangements for procuring knives) which would let the blood flow (and along with it) the name of Allah is also to be recited. Then eat, but not the tooth or nail. And I am going to tell you why it is not permissible to slaughter the animal with the help of tooth and bone; and as for the nail. it is a bone, and the bone is the knife of Abyssinians. He (the narrator) said: There fell to our lot as spoils of war camels and goats, and one of the camels among them became wild. A person (amongst usl struck It with an arrow which brought it under control. whereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: This camel became wild like wild animals, so if you find any animal getting wild, you do the same with that

Book 022, Number 4847:
Rafi' b. Khadij reported: While we were with Allah's Messenger (may peace he upon him) in Dhu'I-Hulaifa in Tihama, we got hold of goats and camels. Some persons (amongst us) made haste and boiled (the flesh of goats and camels) in their earthen pots. He then commanded and these were turned over; then he equalised ten goats for a camel. The rest of the hadith is the same.

Book 022, Number 4848:
Rafi' b. Khadij reported from his grandfather that he said: Allah's Messenger, we are going to encounter the enemy tomorrow, but we do not have long knives with us, should we then slaughter them with the peel of the reed? The rest of the hadith is the same. (And at the end the words are):" A camel became wild (and got out of our control). We attacked it with arrows until we made it fall down." This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Sa'id b. Masruq with the same chain of transmitters with a slight variation of words.

Book 022, Number 4849:
Rafi' b. Khadij reported that he said: Allah's Messenger, we are going to encounter the enemy tomorrow. and we do not have large knives with us. The rest of the hadith is the same, but no mention is made of this:" The people hastened and they boiled (flesh) in the earthen pots. He (the Holy Prophet), cammanded and these were turned over and the narrator narrated the whole event.

Chapter 5: IT WAS NOT PERMISSIBLE TO EAT THE FLESH OF SACRIFICIAL ANIMALS BEYOND THREE DAYS AT THE BEGINNING OF ISLAM, BUT THIS PROHIBITION WAS ABROGATED, AND NOW IT IS PERMISSIBLE

Book 022, Number 4850:
Abu Ubaid reported: I was with 'Ali b. Abi Talib on the occasion of the 'Id day. He started with the 'Id prayer before delivering the sermon, and said: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) forbade us to eat the flesh of our sacrificial animals beyond three days.

Book 022, Number 4851:
Abu 'Ubaid, the freed slave of Ibn Azhar, reported that he said 'Id (prayer) with Umar b. al-Khattab, and then said the 'Id (prayer) with 'Ali b. Abu Talib. He (the narrator further) reported: He led us in prayer before delivering the sermon and then addressed the people saying: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) has forbidden you to eat the flesh of your sacrificial animals beyond three nights, so do not eat that.

Book 022, Number 4852:
This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Zuhri with the same chain of transmitters.

Book 022, Number 4853:
Ibn 'Umar reported kllah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) having said: None of you shculd eat the flesh of his sacrificial animal beyond three days.

Book 022, Number 4854:
This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Ibn Umar through another chain of transmitters.

Book 022, Number 4855:
Ibn 'Umar reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) forbade that the flesh of sacrificial animals be eaten beyond three (days) Salim (son of Ibn Umar) said: Ibn 'Umar did not eat the flesh of the sacrificial animals beyond three (days). Ibn Abu 'Umar said:" Beyond three days."

Book 022, Number 4856:
Abdullah b. Waqid reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) forbade (people) to cat the flesh of sacrificed animals beyond three days. Abdullah b. Abu Bakr said, I made a mention of that to 'Amra, whereupon she said: He has told the truth, for I heard 'A'isha say: The poor among the people of the desert come (to the towns) on the occasion of Id al-Adha during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him). Upon this Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Retain with you (the flesh) sufficing for three (days), and whatever is left out of that give in charity. After this. they (the Muslims) said: Allah's Messenger, the people make waterskins with the (hides) of their sacrificed animals and they melt fat out of them. Thereupon he said. What the then? They said: You forbade (us) to eat the flesh of sacrificial animals beyond threoq (days), whereupon he said: I forbade you for those (poor persons) who flocked (to the towns on this occasion for getting meat) but now when (this situation has improved) you may eat, preserve and give -in charity.

Book 022, Number 4857:
Jabir reported that Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) forbade eating of the flesh of sacrificed animals beyond three (days). but afterwards said: Eat, make a provision, and keep it.

Book 022, Number 4858:
Jabir b. Abdullah reported: We did not eat the flesh of our sacrificial animals beyond three days in Mina. Then Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) permitted us saying: Eat and make it a provision (for journey). I asked 'Ata' whether Jabir had also said: Till we came to Medina. He said: Yes.

Book 022, Number 4859:
Jabir b. 'Abdullah reported: We did not eat the flesh of sacrificed animals beyond three (days), but then Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) commanded us to make it a provision for journey and cat it (beyond three days).

Book 022, Number 4860:
Jabir reported: We made provision (out of the flesh of sacrificed animals for our journey) to Medina during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him).

Book 022, Number 4861:
Abu Sa'id al-Khudri reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) having said: O people of Medina, do not eat the flesh of sacrificed animals beyond three days. Ibn al-Muthanni said: Three days. They (the Companions of the Holy Prophet) complained to the Messenger of Allah (may peace he upon him) that they had children and servants of theirs (to feed), whereupon he said: Eat, and feed others, and store, and make it a provision of food.

Book 022, Number 4862:
Salama b. al-Akwa' reported Allah's Messenger (way peace be upon him) having said: He who sacrifices (animal) among you nothing should be left in his house (out of its flesh) on the morning of the third day. When it was the next year they (his Companions) said: Should we do this year as we did daring the previous year? Thereupon he said: Don't do that, for that was a year when the people were hard pressed (on account of poverty). so I wanted that the (flesh) might be distributed amongst them.

Book 022, Number 4863:
Thauban reported that Allah's Messenger (way peace be upon him) slaughtered his sacrificial animal and then said: Thauban, make his meat usable (for journey), and I continuously served him that until he arrived in Medina.

Book 022, Number 4864:
This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Mu'awiya b. Salih with the same chain of transmitters.

Book 022, Number 4865:
Thauban, the freed slave of Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him), reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said to me on the occasion of Hajjat-al-Wada' (the Farewell Pilgrimage): Make the flesh usable. So I made it usable (for him) and he ate it constantly until he reached Medina. This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Yabya b. Hamza with the same chain of transmitters, but he did not say: On the occasion of Hajjat-al-Wada'.

Book 022, Number 4866:
Abdullah b. Buraida reported on the authority of his father that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said this: I prohibited you from visiting the graves, but (now) you may visit them, and I prohibited you (from eating) the flesh of sacrific- ed animals beyond three days, but now keep it as long as you like. I prohibited you from the use of Nabidh except (that preoared) in dry waterskins. Now drink (Nabidh prepared in any utensil), but do not drink when it becomes intoxicant.

Book 022, Number 4867:
Ibn Buraida, on the authority of his father, reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) having said this: I used to forbid you. The rest of the hadith is the same.

Chapter 6: SACRIFICING OF FARA' AND 'ATIRA ARE IDOLATROUS PRACTICES

Book 022, Number 4868:
Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: (The sacrifice of Fara' and 'Atira) has no (sanction in Islam). Ibn Rafi' made this addition in his narration that Fara' means the first-born young one of a camel.

Chapter 7: IT IS NOT PERMISSIBLE FOR ONE WHO INTENDS TO SACRIFICE THE ANIMAL TO GET ONE'S HAIR OR NAILS CUT AFTER THE BEGINNING OF DHU'L-HIJJA

Book 022, Number 4869:
Umm Salama reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) having said this: When any one of you intending to sacrifice the animal enters in the month (of Dhu'l-Hijja) he should not get his hair or nails touched (cut). It was said to Sufyan that some of the (scholars) did not deem this hadith to be Maffu'. He said: But I deem it as Marfu' (i. e. chain of narration traceable right up to the Holy Prophet).

Book 022, Number 4870:
Umm Salama reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as saying: If anyone of you intends to offer sacrifice he should not get his hair cut or nails trimmed.

Book 022, Number 4871:
Umm Salama reported (these words) directly from Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him): If anyone has in his possession a sacrificial animal to offer as a sacrifice (on 'Id al-Adha), he should not get his hair cut and nails trimmed after he has entered the first days of Dhu'l Hijja

Book 022, Number 4872:
This hadith has been narrated on the authority of 'Amr b. Muslim with the same chain of transmitters.

Book 022, Number 4873:
Umm Salama, the wife of Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him), reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) to have said: He who has a sacrificial animal with him whom (he intends) to offer as sacrifice, and he enters the month of Dhu'I-Hijja, he should not get his hair cut or nails trimmed until he has sacrificed the animal.

Book 022, Number 4874:
'Amr b. Muslim b. 'Ammar al-Laithi reported: While we were in a bathroom just before 'Id al-Adha some of the persons tried to remove the hair with the help of hair-removing chemicals. Thereupon some of the people owning the bath (or some of the people sitting therein) said that Sa'id b. Musayyib did not approve of it, or he prohibited it. Then I met Sa'id b. Musayyib and made a mention of that to him, whereupon he said: O my nephew, this is the hadith which has been forgotten, and abandoned. Umm Salama, the wife of Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him), narrated to me Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) having said as narrated above.

Book 022, Number 4875:
Amr b. Muslim al-Jundani reported that Ibn Musayyib had told him that it was Umm Salama, the wife of Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him), who had informed him of that as narrated above.

Chapter 8: IT IS FORBIDDEN TO SACRIFICE THE ANIMAL FOR ANYONE BESIDES ALLAH, THE EXALTED, AND CURSE UPON ONE WHO DOES IT

Book 022, Number 4876:
Abu Tufail 'Amir b. Withila reported: I was in the company of 'Ali b. Abi Talib, when a person came to him, and said: What was it that Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) told you in secret? Thereupon he (liadrat 'All) was enraged and said: Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) did not tell me anything in secret that he hid from people, except that he told me four things. He said: Com- mader of Faithful, what are these? He said: Allah cursed him who cursed his father; Allah cursed him who sacrificed for anyone besides Allah; and Allah cursed him who accommodates an innovator (in religion) ; and Allah cursed him who changed the minarets (the boundary lines) of the land.

Book 022, Number 4877:
Abu Tufail reported: We said to 'Ali b. Abi Talib: Inform us about something which Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) told you in secret, whereupon he said: He told me nothing in secret which he bid from people, but I heard him say: Allah cursed him who sacrificed for anyone besides Allah; and cursed him who accommodated an innovator; and Allah cursed him who cursed his parents and Allah cursed him who changed the boundary lines (of the land possessed by him).

Book 022, Number 4878:
Abu Tufail reported: 'Ali was asked whether Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) had showed special favour (by disclosing to him) a thing (which he kept secret from others). Thereupon he said: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) singled us not for (disclosing to us) anything (secret) which he did not make public, (but those few things) which lie in the sheath of my sword. He drew out the written document contained in it and on that (it was mentioned): Allah cursed him who sacrificed for anyone else besides Allah; and Allah cursed him who stole the signposts (demarcating the boundary lines of the) land; and Allah cursed him who cursed his father; and Allah cursed him who accommodated an innovator (in religion).

منشورات قلبية

كَمْ بَكَتْ مِني عيونى------ كَمْ ادمانى شوقى و حَنِينى--------- لَا يُطَاقُ ! كَمْ مَالَ الْقَلْبُ مِنْ ضَيِّقَةٍ عَلَيكَ----- كَمْ طَلَبَتْكَ كُلُّ شَيّ الَا الْفُرَّاقِ.. كَمْ لَاحَ لى الامل سرَاب---- حَتَّى حُبَكٍ كَانَ مَوَّالُ عَذَاب---- وقلبى مِنَ الاشواق داب----- بَيْنَ الشَّكِّ وَالْيَقِينِ بِحَبِّكَ----- بغيابك عُرِفَتْ مَرُّ السِّنَّيْنِ----- لَمْ يَعِدْ حُبَكُ يهوانى--- انا عَلَى وَعِدَى اِفْكِرْ فِيكَ---- وَاِشْتَاقَ بِحَنَّيْنِ وانين------ ان كَانَ لَكَ نِيَّةُ غُيَّاب------ وَدَعَّنِي. وَخُذِّنَّي مَعكَ----- انا وَافِي مَعَ- الذِّكْرَى----- مَعَ الهمسى بِكُلَّ انفاسى-----‏ لَوْ إِنْ قَرِبَكَ وَالْوُصَلُ ب التَّمَنِّي كَانَ بعدكهمى وَموتَى------ ماغبت عَنْ عَيْني كُثْرٌ مَا اتمناك--- غُيَّابكَ علمنى حَبَّ التَّمَنَّى--- وَقُرُبَكَ اِسْعَدْ هَمَى وهمسى----- كَانَ لى حَبيب جَوَّةِ قلبى---- خَرَجَ مِنَ انفاسى وكسرنى----- أَشُوفُكَ بِالْمُدَى وَأَسْهَرُ----. كَأَنّهُ مَا بَقَّى..----- لِي يَوْمُ غَابَتْ انفاسى عَنَّى-----” خَذَّنِي مِني وَحِدَتَي وامانى وَأَنَا مَا عُدَّتْ أغَنُّي---- اِنْكَسَرَ قُلَّبِيٌّ عَلَى اعتاب التَّمَنِّي----- دايِمَ الوحده غَرِيبَهُ ولوتطول بِالْغُيَّابِ اِرْجِعْ لِأَنّي وَدِّيَّ سَأَلَ--- عَنْ هَوَى دَارِكَ وَعَني.-------‏ تَوَادُعَنَا ! تَلَاشَتْ فِينَا مواجعنا---- عَوَاذِلَنَا عَلَى الفرقا بَكَوْا مَعنَا----- كَنَّتْ ك أَغَنِيَّةٌ، رَاقَصْتُ انغامها،----- سِكَّة حَنَّيْنِ فِيهَا انغام السِّنَّيْنِ----- مَا نَسِيَّتُكَ انفاسى كا طُعَمَ----- المسكا الْمَخْتُومَ----- انا الرُّحَّالَ معاكى فى الْحَالَ---- فى كُلُّ دَرْبِ لى اشواق---- ‏ اغيب وَاُبْعُدْ وَاِنْشَغَلَ انا---- عتَاب مُدِرِّي مُلَاَمِهِ وَلَا نَدَامَةُ--- مِنْ بَعْدكَ مَا فى مَلَاَمَةَ---- يَصْعُبُ عَلَى النِّسْيَانِ نِسْيَانكَ--- وَهَجْرَكَ طَالَ مَا لة نِهَايَةَ--- ماعرف اعيش الًا معاك----- اللَّهَ يساامح: غييابك---- مَا أَلُومُ إلا وَفَائِيٌّ و اشواقى---- كُلُّ لَيْلَةٍ يجي طَيْفكَ ينادينى---- لِلْوصَالِ وَلَا الْعتَابُ تهدينى----- اُبْغِيكَ بجانبى اللَّيْلَةَ---- عَلَى مُهْلِكٍ عَلَى--- أَنَا مابكي وَمِثْلكَ مَا يُبْكِينِي الْفَقْدُ لَهُ حَزِنَ وَالشَّوْقُ لَهُ احساس-- وَحُبَى انا بِكُلَّ الانفاس اخاف ياخذك الْبِعادَ--- وانسى انا حُبّ الْحَيَاةِ إذاَ اِلْتَقَتْ أَنفَاسُنَا عَادَ الامل----- وَاُرْتُوَا شريانى بِالْهَوَى
لا يُقرب الرجال إلى النساء سوى أحزانهم فدعيني حزينا كي أبقى إلى جانبك .
هُنَاكَ دقَّة نَبْض غَرِيبَة تَسكُنُ قَلبِي عِندَمَا أقْرَأ اسْمُكَ فَقَط
قبَل أنَ تدُخل مدينة الحُبَ تذكر أنَ الداخل مفقودَ والخارج مُولود وبِالمُناسبه? لم? يخرج أحدَ مِنه?ا مِن? قبلَ .
واي جنونٌ ذاک . الذي يجعلني اكره ما احب من اجلگ !
حين أشتقت إليك تمنيت لو أن الزمان يعود
عَينيِّ اللِي بَكتْ فِيِّ غِيابَكْ : تَصدقْتُ بِها نَهرٍ جَارِ حُرِيٌ بِه أنْ يَكُونْ للظَامئِينْ سَبيِلْ ,,,
كُنت انعَم بنوُم هنيء. . إلى أن طرقتِ بآب جفّني .
أخبرهم أنك تعيش بَ دآخلي ...
ثمّة بعثره في خواطرنا نوّد بوحها لكن بقاؤها في القلب رُبما يكون أوّفى ,,,
ظننت أنه من الأفضل أن نعود بعد فراق طويل ، فقط لأفصح عن حبي جيداً وأودعك بشكل أفضل مما سبق ، ظننت ونسيت أن بعض الظن إثم .
مرحلة الإشتياق هي أن تشعر بهم دون علمهم ..
صغيره هي الحياة مجرد شهيق إن لم يتبعه زفير : أنتهت .
لو وُضعت أنثى بين ألف رجل ، وأرادت حفظ نفسها ، لفعلت !
و مَ السهر إلا رفيقاً لي،، اُحب ان اثرثر له ويحب إرهااق عيناي
وإن كآنت آنوثتهَآ جنة , فما بالكم في باقي تفاصيلُهَا .
هُنآك وجَع تَعجزُ ؛ آلحٌروف عن كِتآبَته ؛ تتَقلبٌ آلكَلمآتٌ ألماً عن وَصَفه ؛ ضَجِيجّ ؛ ينهشّ آلقَلب عن ذكره.،
سَيّدتِي أمِيرَةٌ شَرقِيَّة . تَهوَى الـحُـبَّ ولآ تَحتَرِفه، في دُولآبِهَآ ألفَ ثَوب، وفي قَلبِهَآ ألفَ حُـبّ ,,,
لَيْتَني لَمْ أطْرُق عَالمْ الوَرق وَ أرْشُق بِ القَلم ..
أحبك وفي كل مره تقولها أشعر بذات الدهشة ، والرغبه في ان احتضنك بشدة حد الإنغماس في كاف الخطاب المحاطه بفمك

لا أدري: أنحن الذين نعجز عن الكلام أو الكلام هو الذى يعجز عنا ؟؟
يقولون أن : لغة الصمــــــــــــــت أفضل لغة لتعبير فماذا لو عجز الصمت عن التعبير !؟؟؟
مشاركةسالونى انت مصرى قولت نعم وافتخر قالو اشبالكم يحبوا البلد قولت لايوجد عندنا اشبال اصغرنا اسد واكبرنا بطل سالونى الى اى مدى تحب مصر قولت للابد سالونى تحبى جيشك قولت نعم احبه لانه اخى وابى وابنى وحامى البلد وقال عليه رسولنا خير اجناد الارض سالونى ومن رئيسكم قولت لاتقول رئيسنا ولكن قول زعيم مصر والعرب سالونى وما اسمه قولت سيسى قلب الاسد ابن الشعب المصرى وتربية جيشنا المصرى حامى العرب سالونى وما اسمك يافتى قولت انا عبدالحليم مصرى ودمى فداء لمصرنا الحبيبه ام العرب

هناك فروق نفسية كثيرة بين تركيبة الشاب وتركيبة البنت , ومفهوم العلاقة هذه يختلف بين الشاب والفتاة اختلافا كبيرا .. وهذا الأمر تنساه الفتاة – أو تتناساه – ولهذا تقع في المشاكل !

ومن الجدير بالذكر أن اقول : إن الفتاة هي الفتاة مهما تغيرت جنسيتها أو اصلها أو بيئتها أو دينها أو درجة التزامها .. فهي عاطفية وسريعة التأثر بما حولها وحساسة جدا للانتقاد وللمدح والثناء وتصدق بسرعة وضعيفة وتحتاج لمن يسندها وكثيرة كلام وتحب أن يسمعها الناس وعند الحب تفقد عقلها وتصبح كاللعبة بين يدي الشاب وقد تعطيه كل ما تملك بدون أن تعي ما الذي تفعله بنفسها وما الذي تجنيه من جراء ذلك !!

وهذه الأمور ايجابية وسلبية في نفس الوقت .. وقد تتغير من بنت لبنت ولكن تبقى هذه السمات غالبة عند النساء .. وهي موجودة بدرجة أقل عند الشباب ..


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عندما تعود الفتاة لوعيها ولدينها وتعرف أن السبيل الوحيد للرجل لكي يصل إليها هو الزواج فإنها تواجه خطرا يتمثل في الأدلة التي تدينها عند أهلها .. وتختلف الأدلة هذه من رقم الهاتف ومعلومات عامة عنها , إلى صورتها وتسجيلات لمكالماتها الغرامية مع هذا الرجل , إلى أخطر شيء وهو تسجيل فيديو لها وهي تمارس الحرام معه سواء كانت الفاحشة والعياذ بالله أو مقدماتها !

والذي اعتقد أنه أكثر ما يؤرق هذه الفتاة وأمثالها هو تسجيل المكالمات بالدرجة الأولى , والمعلومات الشخصية بالدرجة الثانية ... أما الفيديو فهذه مرحلة متقدمة لا تصل اليها كثير من الفتيات إلا بعد أن يغيب عنها العقل والدين والخوف من الله والناس في تلك اللحظة !

ومهما يكن الدليل الذي يحتفظ به الشاب والذي بواسطته يستطيع أن يبتز هذه الفتاة , فإن هذا – كما ذكرنا في النقطة السابقة – لا يبرر لها التمادي في الباطل .. كلا , بل يجب عليها أن تتوقف فورا قبل أن تتوغل أكثر في هذه المشكلة ..

وبما أن كثيرا من المعاكسين يكون كاذبا في زعمه أنه يحب فتاته وأنه لا ينام الليل من التفكير بها وأنه يتشوق لسماع صوتها أو رؤية صورتها وأنه وأنه ....... الخ فإنهم لا يجدون حرجا في ابتزاز الفتاة التي لا تستجيب لهم وخصوصا أن الفتاة التي تربت في بيئة محافظة تجد حرجا كبيرا جدا في الخروج مع الغريب إما خوفا من الله أو خوفا من الأهل أو خوفا من الفضيحة .
وفي الوقت الذي يجد المعاكس فتاته قد أوصدت أمامه السبل فإنه يلجأ للابتزاز والتهديد بالأدلة حتى ترضخ البنت لما يريده منها . والذي لا تعلمه البنت - غالبا - أن استجابتها لتهديده سيكون دليلا جديدا وأداة ابتزاز أقوى تضعه هي بنفسها في يده ! وليس هناك حل لها إلا التوقف عن الانحدار في هذا المستنقع الآسن , والبعد عن هذا الشاب بدون أي تردد .

ولكن : ما الذي تفعله البنت حتى تتخلص من الأدلة التي تدينها ؟

أولا : يجب أن تفكر البنت بهدوء وتعقل وبعيدا عن التفاؤل الزائد أو التشاؤم الزائد .. ثم تجيب على هذا السؤال :

هل من الممكن أن يوصل الشاب ما عنده من الادلة لأهلها ؟ وهل الأدلة هذه كافية لادانتها ؟

إن كان يغلب على ظنها أنه لن يفعل لأنه لا يمتلك دليلا كافيا أو أنه حتى لو فعل فسيكون انكارها سهلا لضعف حجته أو غير هذا من الاسباب .... المهم : أنه ترجح لديها أن أدلته لن تصل وان وصلت فلن يكون من الصعب انكارها .. فهذه عليها أن تستر نفسها ويكفيها التوبة النصوح وصدق الرجوع إلى الله , كما انصحها أن تحمد ربها عز وجل على أن هذا هو وضعها , ولا أنصحها ابدا بالاعتراف على نفسها لأنه ليس من المصلحة في شيء ...

أما إن غلب على ظنها أن هذا الشاب سيوصل ما لديه وأن أدلته قوية ( كالصورة أو التسجيل الصوتي مثلا ) فهذه هي من أوجه الكلام لها في هذه النقطة ( بيدي لا بيد عمرو ) .
أعيد كلامي لكِ أختي الكريمة واقول : مهما يكن الدليل قويا فإن عليكِ أن توقفي علاقتك بهذا الشاب .. ومهما يكن دليله قويا إلا أن الدليل الجديد سيزيده قوة الى قوته ولا تظني أن الرضوخ لهذا الشاب سيجعله يتركك في حال سبيلك !
والذي عليكِ أن تفعليه هو أن ترفعي شعار ( بيدي لا بيد عمرو ) !! نعم , فإذا كان الخبر سيصل لا محالة للأهل فلتكوني أنتِ من يوصله لهم , واذا أحس الأهل من ابنتهم التوبة الصادقة والندم على ما فعلت فإنهم مهما كانت ردة فعلهم ( المقاطعه / الحبس في البيت / بل حتى الأذى الجسدي ) سيكون افضل لها من أن يأتي الكلام من الشاب لسببين : الأول لأنها في نظرهم مقرة بخطئها معترفة به ونادمة عليه .. الثاني : أنها أتت واعترفت باختيارها ولم يجبرها أحد وهذا يدل على أنها صادقة في توبتها .. وهذا سيجعلهم في صفها ضد هذا المعاكس .

وعندما أنصح الفتاة بالاعتراف قبل أن يصل الخبر من غيرها فإني لا أطلب منها أن تعترف وكفى وليكن ما يكون ! كلا , بل يجب عليها أن تبحث عن شخص قريب منها بحيث لا تجد حرجا كبيرا في مصارحته , ويكون يغلب على ظنها أنه سيساعدها .. وهذا الشخص اما أخ أكبر أو أخت أو عمة أو خالة أو صديقة ... الخ المهم : أن يكون ممن يستحق أن تصارحه بمشكلتها ويكون على استعداد للمساعدة . ويمكنها أن تستخدم اسلوب الرسائل ان خشيت من المواجهة .. ولتبين لأهلها أن نادمة وتائبة وانها ستتحمل أي شيء يفعلونه بها .

وانصحك بمقارنة الأمرين معا حتى تعلمي ايهما اخف ضررا : اعترافك وتحملك لما سيأتيكِ من أهلك .. أو الصبر حتى يصل الخبر وينكشف المستور !
نعم , أنا لا أزعم أن الاعتراف سهل ولكني متيقن أنه اسهل من الصبر حتى يأتي الدليل واسهل من اكتشاف الاهل لأخطائكِ السابقة من خلال ذلك الشاب المعاكس .

وبعد هذا اقول : يجب أن يكون الاعتراف مدروسا بشكل جيد حتى يؤتي ثماره وحتى تخرج هذه الفتاة من مشكلتها وترتاح بحيث حتى اذا وصل الدليل فإن الأهل سيكونون في صف ابنتهم وليس ضدها ..

قد تقولين هذا صعب جدا !! واقول لكِ : نعم هو كذلك ولكنه الحل الوحيد , وهو أخف الضررين !







الأربعاء، 19 يوليو 2017

Good morning...


Hehe i don't understand
ok

Bahbk. LOVE?

Helo...?
yes

Thank you
Love like brothers in humanity

And i thank u for that kind of love dispite of race
10 فبراير 06:11 صباحاً
good   m
I was there for love
The greatest causes of mental health treatment and chest tightness and was short:
-1 Guidance and uniformity, and the misguided and polytheism of the greatest causes of chest tightness, the guidance and the unification of God of the greatest reasons for feeling happy.
-2 Sincere faith in God with the good work.
-3 Useful knowledge, the more aware of the slave Ecstasize widened and widened his chest.
-4 Representation and return to God, and love with all the heart, and the popularity of it and enjoy the worship.
-5 Time mention God in any case and in every home, Vllzkr an amazing effect on the flowering of the chest, heart and Naim, and the demise of worry and grief.

You're an instrument to enlighten me
غثس
yes
I have a feeling you Xi important in my heart
I hope you prosperity and happiness in this world and the afterlife
I hope you prosperity and happiness in this world and Alakharhama injury is hated compare the rest of the blessings winning his religious or secular , and between what afflicted the hated When the comparison is clear much of what is in it graces , and also compares the fear of the damage it and the many possibilities in safety will not leave any possibility weak overcomes many possibilities so strong and energetic and fear disappears .
-19 People know that the injury will not harm him , especially in the words of malignant but not hurting them puts her not not thought so as not to harm him .
-20 Makes his ideas that will benefit him in the religion and the world .

OK. Take care and GOD BLESS.

. (49) And we gave them of Our mercy, and assigned to them a high and true renown. (50) And make mention in the Scripture of Moses. Lo! he was chosen, and he was a messenger (of Allah), a prophet. (51) We called him from the right slope of the Mount, and brought him nigh in communion. (52) And We bestowed upon him of Our mercy his brother Aaron, a prophet (likewise). (53)And make mention in the Scripture of Ishmael. Lo! he was a keeper of his promise, and he was a messenger (of Allah), a prophet. (54) He enjoined upon his people worship and almsgiving, a
9 فبراير 11:10 مساءً
شahlan

Good morning...
g m

Kaif halak?
good

Tamam
tamam

Coffee dear..
than;ssssssssssssssss
thankssss

Afwannn

Entha mashuhool?
no]
ana

OK eysfe sawi?
?

I mean what are u doing. that's the saudian speak.
ana bahbk
??

Sunrise hope


Sunrise hope
2 - Secret achievement
Investment queens and talent : achievers use what God-given times and energies and talents . Focusing their efforts on the key steps and activities that matter most. Prefer to postpone the pleasures and waiting for the long-term results . Do not rush success nor steal nor results Islqon tasks . Give everything right and devote his time each work .
Sunrise hope
3 - Secret Achievement
Create the conditions . We respond to the atmosphere around us and create Mnachathm distinguished themselves. Care about their bodies and their offices . Wearing the best clothes and remain ready to use their tools and work. Every truly successful work in offices and living a life of elegant organization and tidy .

Sunrise hope
4 - Secret Achievement
Hard work . Very successful work more than the rest of the people . Do not believe statements and claims of advocates of luxury and enjoy over time . They themselves working long hours and making more efforts than others .

But their efforts are not focused on the completion of the work by themselves , but are paying more attention to relationships and readings , conferences and accomplishments .
Sunrise hope
The past is not the same future.

Shi past and the future is something else , the past and the future finished ready for breakdown by size you like .
What happened to you in the past, certainly should not be repeated in the future .

If your first marriage did not work does not mean that your marriage will not work the second past is not the same as the future. Whatever happens you stumbled in the past does not mean that it will be repeated in the future . Attitude when it happened to you in the past did not know how to deal with it does not mean that you are in the future the former will be the same abilities , you change and evolve.
Sunrise hope
Says thinkers , leaders and reformers and educators that man must be persistent and diligent and patient , to elaborate his work , organized for his time to another long list of vocabulary quality. But they did not say how the man can do it .


Sunrise hope
Says Anthony Robbins ( taught me one of my professors that read something creamy with a value will Agvek and teach you new things distinct find more important than eating the same , and as a result related to the idea of reading for a period of not less than thirty minutes each day , he said to me ( Lance meal but Do not ignore a reading ) and has developed a conviction in the early period of my life is that leaders are reading ) .
Sunrise hope
The ultimate goal of life is to act and not a science , science without a job is worth nothing , as we learn in order to work . " Thomas Huxley ."
Sunrise hope
Challenge yourself and the decision was taken to be an important and useful person in this life and get rid of poor personal surrendering , Esq yourself with faith in God , Esq yourself trust in God and yourself and your abilities , Esq people love yourself and work

For their service , and all of this is proven to pray and read the Koran and the night to be a great tree blowing off for all.
Sunrise hope
Most of us can do more than what is believed to be able to do, but we usually do less than we think we can do . " Matthew Arnold ."
Sunrise hope
Scientists say psychiatry : ( If you encounter a problem , expect the worst , you trivialize what happened without them ) .
Sunrise hope
Nothing can Adtarapk only thoughts you . , And you have the power to reject all the ideas that inside you .
Sunrise hope
Summed psychologist ( Maslow ) characteristics were able to achieve some of themselves in the following:

1 - They realize the truth efficiently , and can afford to oscillate between doubt and certainty .

2 - accept themselves as they are and others as they are.

3 - they AutoShapes in their thinking and behavior.

4 - they focus their interest in the problems than on themselves.

5 - bearing have the Queen of humor.

6 - creators and creative .

7 - resisting conformation civilized intruder .

8 - they care about human rights and happily .
Sunrise hope

Writing your goals on paper are more likely to have a inquiry by 1000%
God willing .
Sunrise hope
Not the victory that overcomes the others not to overtake them .. real victory .. that others can not live without you .

Sunrise hope
What drives him worry and anxiety meeting thought the whole work of the present-day and future piece of Interest and sadness on the past. Collect the heart on the present requires supplement business Westley by slave for worry and grief.

Sunrise hope
Of the most common reasons for feeling happy and tranquility breeding of a male God, so influential in the strange feeling happy and tranquility and the demise of his concern and his chagrin he says: ( not the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest .)

Sunrise hope
If your happiness depends on change someone weave Vsaikhyee reign .
Giving summit and the summit of contentment elaborated on the hearts of God Nour Radwan and the sweetness of faith on your senses and your body on the well-being of the body and the sweetness of the Qur'an and Osmaekm on your tongues Forget
سلام

THANK U

I'M going to hospital emergency
10 فبراير 10:15 صباحاً
What happened? Did Xi dangerous? Is befalls you or marginalized children Tmniny
؟
What happened? Are you okay
؟

YES i'm ok. i'm now in hosptal. she step in a wet floor.

HER SPINAL BONE CRACK

Back bone
I hope you a speedy recovery
10000سشمشةش
10000salama
I'm going to the bank and come back an hour later
Claimed that God will heal you

ALLAY SALLAMAK

OK I'M STILL HERE

It's not me my mother in law
10 فبراير 01:20 مساءً
خن
ok
No one will come for you to carry your sadness;

Everyone is in need of them carrying their sorrows

If you want to remain loved and always beware the complaint "Complaining to God is humiliating"
Messenger of Allah

Sea water's purity is based on the following hadith: Abu Hurairah related that a man asked the Messenger of Allah, upon whom be peace, "O Messenger of Allah, we sail on the ocean and we carry only a little water. If we use it for ablution, we will have to go thirsty. May we use sea water for ablution?" Said the Messenger of Allah, upon whom be peace, "Its (the sea) water is pure and its dead (animals) are lawful (i.e., they can be eaten without any prescribed slaughtering)." This hadith is related by "the five." At-Tirmizhi calls it hassan sahih, and al-Bukhari says it is sahih.
Volume 1, Page 2a: Water from the well of Zamzam
'Ali narrated that the Messenger of Allah, upon whom be peace, called for a bucket that contained water from the well of Zamzam. He drank from the bucket, then made ablution (with its

I'M going i have to check the children and take some things for my in law.
ok

SO depressing
?

STRESS

Problems
Do not be upset with you Lord
You are strong

I'M really upset
ر لخخي
v good

I'm calling my husband to tell about his mother but it is off.
ok

I HAD infor her doughter in manila. they will be coming maybe tomarrow.
ok

I don't know what to do 1st tomarrow.
Ask God to stand with you

Thank u for comforting me

Check up ng pamangkin q. pauwi na kami d2 me sm sumakay. nakta q c helen magana
؟؟؟

SORY MISTAKE
ok

Aftr 45 min i'll b at home.
ok

I have head ache now
1oooo hana

SHOKRAN
alafow
10 فبراير 03:16 مساءً

I'm home.
good

MY son cook their dinner. and my youngest wash plates.
vgood
v    good

They are blessing to me. my youngest is sleeping. he had letter  he says mama before i sleep i have done my homework... my friend i'm very proud of them

They are boys but they help me do house works.
good
salan al salae

i hope my husband will visit them someday. and see how i threated them and they grow good

Yalla go and pray...
ok
We returned
11 فبراير 06:21 صباحاً
اهلا
11 فبراير 10:04 صباحاً

I'm in hospital again
11 فبراير 11:12 صباحاً
\ok
h r mama?

Helo she's feeling better maybe tomarrow will discharge.
ok
11 فبراير 01:50 مساءً

I'M home
yes

I'M Little bit tired...
؟؟

SWAY tahban
1000 salame

Shokran kateer
12 فبراير 06:23 صباحاً
اة

AHLAN
h r u?

I'M ok

Alhamdolillah
Have you got ready to change for the better for your life and the hereafter Islam is the solution

YES
Step forward is better than waiting for what is not good

YES
God will open you all the best in accessing the religion of Allah Islam

I'LL do step by step
Good for you to be a Muslim and Atuvaky God to be Paradise or socialization?

Thank u 4 guiding me
I am afraid of you the other day Kony Muslim be happy

AFRAID?
Do you have any doubt I Adeoky to goodness and happiness?

NO
I do not want you to Xi or any relationship Maao anything material and I want to save your soul from the fire

I don't understand
Ahmed does not want a relationship or another Xi and I want to be a Muslim

I have lots of friends but never have related to any one

NEVER had affair.

ISLAM is the religion of peace
غثس
yes

I want peace all the time
Islam provides you with both safety and peace, love and happiness

Mashallah
انا لا

I can't read
؟

I don't read arabic pls
خن
ok

Shokran
I am with you

How can i thank u
I want to be a Muslim, you and your family

I'm starting
Not to speak of the door and I said from the door of the verb Aslamk at the Islamic Center

i search some muslims here
ok

UR so good
yes
v  good

Your family is very lucky for having u
thanks

Sory i went out for a while
Normal Brank

I'M going to ofce now. i need to report.
ok
12 فبراير 11:54 صباحاً

SALAM aLaikum...
ahlan

IT'S magreeb here
aldahr

OK
i wel going

I'm home
ok
alo

Naam

Aloo
I'm with you any Sual
The subject does not need to change frequency

MY 1st son seems hard to convince. although i know he will understand me soon.
؟

HE don't want to cnvert into islam.  i'm insist him
Are you talking about your husband?

NO They hate him

I MEAN my son
ok
Do your children do not want to know Islam?

I OFTEN Told them. i began not to serve pork.
You will Aalny Aslamk Allah guides your children

Because they grow in a christianity.

YES
Pork is harmful to health and is haram for a Muslim eaters
When to buy a new computer?

YES i told them
Computer help me to communicate with the children and with you and understand you more

I don't have yet budget. i nee money for graduation of my 2nd and lot of cntributions they have high school night on friday

I really want to have

But i have to provide their basic needs.
ok

How are u by the way?
?

Kaif halak?
I'm fine

Tamam
Kaif=كيف
Tamam=تمام

I don't really know the stroke my emplyer in saudi were teaching but i did never interested.
تا=ta

IT's very hard right to left.
ok

I need basic arabic alphabet just like A to Z
a
End of the word Middle of the word Beginning of the word Sound Example
ا
ـا ـا ا ? / ? 'a' as in 'father'
ب
ـب ـبـ بـ b 'b' as in 'bed'
ت
ـت ـتـ تـ t 't' as in 'tent'
ث
ـث ـثـ ثـ ? 'th' as in 'think'
ج
ـج ـجـ جـ j 'j' as in 'jam'
ح
ـح ـحـ حـ ? Sharp 'h'
Arabic script! You will see that being able to read Arabic will baffle your friends and enrich your life. Also, you will no longer be an analphabet when travelling to an Arab country, and there are many of them.

Let's start!

The first Arabic letter you should learn is Baa: Arabic letter Baa in its isolated form

As you may have guessed from the name, this is the Arabic equivalent of B.

Note that Arabic is read and written from right to left. This will take some getting used to, so take a sheet of paper and practise every letter immediately. To write Baa, start at the right tip of the letter, write that curve to the left and finally place the dot underneath. Dots always come last.

One letter is not enough to read anything, so let's have another. May I present to you: 'alif. Arabic letter Baa in its isolated form

This letter's basic sound is a long "ah". We'll transliterate it as "aa".

One very important thing to note is that Arabic is a cursive script, meaning that you have to connect the letters in writing. So to write "baa", we actually have to mesh Baa and 'alif together: با
'alif is an isolating letter though, meaning that you can attach 'alif to something, but you can't attach another letter to the end of 'alif. So to write "bab", the Arabic word for "door", you have to do this: باب
Many people flee from the real world to the virtual world (the Internet) In your opinion what is the reason Weak personality in 1 - dealing with reality 2 - afraid of the appearance of personal defects 3. Fear of confrontation Or is it 4 - Freedom of expression and satisfaction in speech 5 - dealing with other cultures 6 - Escape from a realistic clash Or what do you see through your opinion A religious unit gives lessons to women in the mosque, once she said to women "It is necessary for a good woman to help her husband to revive polygamous marriage, following the example of the Holy Prophet, and what is contrary to her husband's desire. " After completing the lesson, she took a unit named Revert, she was heard in the lesson, hugged her and said to her: "God opens to you, Sheikh, I did not know how to open the subject, but I met you so understanding, my name is back, and I have 4 years married to your husband, and I could not make you .." Sheikha from the shock Dakht 😵😱 and fainted, and Douha to the hospital. And they went back together. When the sheikha recited, she said to her, "Return." "And God, your husband, I do not know him or his age, but once again do your lessons, pray and honor parents and fasting, and free things that you do not appreciate .. !! "😂😂 🌹 Always ... talk on your face ... 🌹 Many people flee from the real world to the virtual world (the Internet) In your opinion what is the reason Weak personality in 1 - dealing with reality 2 - afraid of the appearance of personal defects 3. Fear of confrontation Or is it 4 - Freedom of expression and satisfaction in speech 5 - dealing with other cultures 6 - Escape from a realistic clash Or what do you see through your opinion Ways to deal with difficult characters:

اختيارات

الفتاة التي تنتمي إلى أسرة محافظة متعصبة تعاني
فيها تسلط الأب أو الأخوة، تختار شابا من أسرة متحررة تقدمية.
 •     الاختيار بدافع توكبد الذات: يعبر عن الحاجة إلى تقدير الذات، فيه
يستهدف صاحب الاختيار شخصا له مقام اجتماعي أو ديني أوسياسي أو نسبي
وحسبي أو غيره، يربط شخصه به ويؤكد ذاته عن طريق اختياره له وارتباطه
به.
 •     الاختيار بدافع الانقاذ: كأن تختار انسانة شابا ضائعا  بتأثير الشفقة
عليه، وهو يختارها بدوره لتخرجه وتنقذه من حالة البؤس والشقاء والفقر
الذي يعيش فيه.
•      الاختيار بدافع عشق الذات: إنه اختيار نرجسي فيه يختار الواحد شخصا
وسعادتهما وشعورهما بوحدة الهدف. أما لو تصورنا أن القيمة الأولى عند
الزوج  هي العلم  والسعي للحصول على أعلى الشهادات، ينما كانت عند الزوجة
الحصول على المال والتمتع بمباهج الحياة فإننا لا نتوقع لهذا الزواج
النجاح.
 •     الوضوح مع النفس والصراحة التامة وإتاحة الفرصة للتعارف المتبادل: ذلك
كله لا يتم عن طريق الحوار فقط إنما  أيضا عن طريق المواقف  وردود الفعل
العفوية المختلفة، وعن طريق ملاحظة تتوفر فيه الصورة التي يعشقها عن ذاته. إن هذا الاختيار عشق للذات من
خلال الآخر.
معايير الاختيار الجيد
ليس المهم أن نختار فقط، إنما أن نحسن الاختيار؛ فيكون اختيارنا واعيا
ومدروسا، حرا وعقلانيا ومحبا؛ أي أن نختار ما يناسبنا وما هو الأفضل حقا
بالنسبة إلينا.
فيما يأتي أهم مقاييس هذا الاختيار الجيد:
 •     الانجذاب: الانجذاب الجسدي والعاطفي والروحي شرط ضروري وأساسي، لكنه لا
يكفي وحده. لهذا الانجذاب معنيان: سلبي ويعني عدم وجود موانع في الآخر
تنفره منه، وايجابي ويعني أن الشخص المختار يستحق أن يكون موضع اهتمام
وتفكير ودراسة أعمق.
 •     توافر عناصر ربط بين الاثنين: عوامل مشتركة في الميول والطباع والطموح
والذوق والاتجاهات والأهداف المشتركة والوسط الاجتماعي والقيم الأخلاقية
الأساسية والمذهب الواحد. وكذلك التناسب في العمر والمستوى الثقافي
والتعليمي والاجتماعي والاقتصادي.

محبة

ليس لنا خيار فيما لا نملك من ما قدرة الله لنا من اشياء جميلة او عكس ذالك واعجب ما يكون ان تجتمع ارواح الناس على محبة من غير هدف الا هو الحب والمودة ولا نمك اى شى حيال ذالك الامر وتحدث اشياء جميلة توثر على عدم الرجوع عن الامر لانها حاجة ملحة يرفض العقل ان يتراجع عنها لانه شؤيك فى خيارت القلب وهنا يحدث التنازع بين القلب والعقل وفى النهاية لا يتراجع القلب عن محبة من يحب وهنا يحدث العذاب القسرى بين ما تحب وما يجب ان يكون
انة عذاب جميل تود ان يستمر حتى نهاية العمر هذا هو الحب قد يعترض بعض الناس ولاكن لا مجال للاخرين فى تعديل مسارات الحب الا صاتحب الحب ولو كان هو كذالك يكون الحب من طرف يتيم واحد لا يهم انة الحب

ولواطعنا عقولنا فى هذا الامر ما تراجع القلب عن حبة لتلك الروح التى احبت روح اخرى ربما يقول احد من الناس ربما نزوة او حاجة يريدها جسدك نقول مهما كان الراى الثلاثى القلب والعقل والجسد شركاء فى اسعاد هذا الانسان عندما يرغب الحسد ان ياكل يحب ثم يفكر وكذالك الحب القلبب يحب والعقل يشجع والجسد ينال ما يحجب شى معنوى واخر عملى هكذا هو الانسان ولو حاولت ان تنسى فانك تخدع نفسك ولك عودة تكون اشد عليك من الاولى واشد شوقا ومودة للاخر مهما بعد او تاسيت ولا ينجيك منها الله صاحب القلوب والعقول سيحان الله ان فى خلقة لشئون مع تحياتى احمد المصرى
ﻓﻲ ﻫﺬﺍ ﺍﻟﺠﺮﻭﻭﺏ ”ﺃﺭﻭﺍﺡ ٌﺭﺍﻗﻴﺔٌ”
ﺗﺨﺠﻠُﻨﻲ
ﻭ ﺗﺠﺒﺮُﻧﻲ ﺃﻥ
ﺍﺣﺘﺮﻣﻬﺎ ﻭﺃﻗﺪﺭﻫﺎ ؛
ﻷﻧﻬﺎ ﻻ ﺗﺴﺘﺤﻖ ّﺳﻮﻯ "
” ﺍﻟﺤﺐ ﻭﺍﻻﺣﺘﺮﺍﻡ ﻭﺍﻟﺘﻘﺪﻳر؛
لو ان الحب كلمات تكتب لانتهت اقلامى .. ولكن الحب ارواح فهل يكفيك روحى
سوال محيرنى
هل يحبك شخص من على بعد ويصرح بحبة لك حتى بدون ان يراك او يسمع صوت
؟
وتحس انتى بنفس المشاعر وكانة بجوارك او بجوار قلبك وتفكيرك وحياتك؟شعور جارف ولاكن الواقعية العقلية ترفض هذا الحب دعونى اضع اسباب لذالك1 الطرف الاول جياش المشاعر اعجبة حديث القلوب 
استعداد الاخر لهذا الحب ودعونى اقول تلاقى ارواح محبةهل انت معى؟ 
ما علينا ربما هناك اسباب اخرىتتعلق بالمحبوب لا اريد الخوض فيها
موضوع للمناقشة ياريت اسمع رايكم
 - القيام بالنوافل : قال الله عز وجل – في الحديث القدسي - : " وما زال عبدي يتقرب إليَّ بالنوافل حتى أحبَّه " ، ومن النوافل : نوافل الصلاة والصدقات والعمرة والحج والصيام .

8 - 12 - الحبّ ، والتزاور ، والتباذل ، والتناصح في الله .

وقد جاءت هذه الصفات في حديث واحد عن الرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم فيما يرويه عن ربه عز وجل قال : " حقَّت محبتي للمتحابين فيَّ ، وحقت محبتي للمتزاورين فيَّ ، وحقت محبتي للمتباذلين فيَّ ، وحقت محبتي للمتواصلين فيَّ " . رواه أحمد ( 4 / 386 ) و ( 5 / 236 ) و " التناصح " عند ابن حبان ( 3 / 338 ) وصحح الحديثين الشيخ الألباني في " صحيح الترغيب والترهيب " ( 3019 و 3020 و 3021 ) .

ومعنى " َالْمُتَزَاوِرِينَ فِيَّ " أي أَنْ يَكُونَ زِيَارَةُ بَعْضِهِمْ لِبَعْضٍ مِنْ أَجْلِهِ وَفِي ذَاتِهِ وَابْتِغَاءِ مَرْضَاتِهِ مِنْ مَحَبَّةٍ لِوَجْهِهِ أَوْ تَعَاوُنٍ عَلَى طَاعَتِهِ .

وَقَوْلُهُ تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَى " وَالْمُتَبَاذِلِينَ فِيَّ " أي يَبْذُلُونَ أَنْفُسَهُمْ فِي مَرْضَاتِهِ مِنْ الِاتِّفَاقِ عَلَى جِهَادِ عَدُوِّهِ وَغَيْرِ ذَلِكَ مِمَّا أُمِرُوا بِهِ ." انتهى من المنتقى شرح الموطأ حديث 1779

13- الابتلاء ، فالمصائب والبلاء امتحانٌ للعبد ، وهي علامة على حب الله له ؛ إذ هي كالدواء ، فإنَّه وإن كان مُرّاً إلا أنَّـك تقدمه على مرارته لمن تحب - ولله المثل الأعلى - ففي الحديث الصحيح : " إنَّ عِظم الجزاء من عظم البلاء ، وإنَّ الله عز وجل إذا أحب قوماً ابتلاهم ، فمن رضي فله الرضا ، ومن سخط فله السخط " رواه الترمذي ( 2396 ) وابن ماجه ( 4031 ) ، وصححه الشيخ الألباني .

ونزول البلاء خيرٌ للمؤمن من أن يُدَّخر له العقاب في الآخرة ، كيف لا وفيه تُرفع درجاته وتكفر سيئاته ، قال النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم : " إذا أراد الله بعبده الخير عجَّل له العقوبة في الدنيا ، وإذا أراد بعبده الشر أمسك عنه بذنبـــه حتى يوافيه به يوم القيامة " رواه الترمذي ( 2396 ) ، وصححه الشيخ الألباني .

وبيَّن أهل العلم أن الذي يُمسَك عنه هو المنافق ، فإن الله يُمسِك عنه في الدنيا ليوافيه بكامل ذنبه يوم القيامة .

فاللـــهم اجعلنا من أحبابـــــك

فإذا أحبك الله فلا تسل عن الخير الذي سيصيبك .. والفضل الذي سينالك .. فيكفي أن تعلم بأنك " حبيب الله " .. فمن الثمرات العظيمة لمحبة الله لعبده ما يلي :

أولاً : حبُّ الناسِ له والقبول في الأرض ، كما في حديث البخاري (3209) : " إذا أحبَّ الله العبد نادى جبريل إن الله يحب فلاناً فأحببه فيحبه جبريل فينادي جبريل في أهل السماء إن الله يحب فلانا فأحبوه فيحبه أهل السماء ثم يوضع له القبول في الأرض " .

ثانياً : ما ذكره الله سبحانه في الحديث القدسي من فضائل عظيمة تلحق أحبابه فعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : إِنَّ اللَّهَ قَالَ : مَنْ عَادَى لِي وَلِيًّا فَقَدْ آذَنْتُهُ بِالْحَرْبِ وَمَا تَقَرَّبَ إِلَيَّ عَبْدِي بِشَيْءٍ أَحَبَّ إِلَيَّ مِمَّا افْتَرَضْتُ عَلَيْهِ وَمَا يَزَالُ عَبْدِي يَتَقَرَّبُ إِلَيَّ بِالنَّوَافِلِ حَتَّى أُحِبَّهُ فَإِذَا أَحْبَبْتُهُ كُنْتُ سَمْعَهُ الَّذِي يَسْمَعُ بِهِ وَبَصَرَهُ الَّذِي يُبْصِرُ بِهِ وَيَدَهُ الَّتِي يَبْطِشُ بِهَا وَرِجْلَهُ الَّتِي يَمْشِي بِهَا وَإِنْ سَأَلَنِي لأُعْطِيَنَّهُ وَلَئِنْ اسْتَعَاذَنِي لأُعِيذَنَّهُ وَمَا تَرَدَّدْتُ عَنْ شَيْءٍ أَنَا فَاعِلُهُ تَرَدُّدِي عَنْ نَفْسِ الْمُؤْمِنِ يَكْرَهُ الْمَوْتَ وَأَنَا أَكْرَهُ مَسَاءَتَهُ " رواه البخاري 6502

الثلاثاء، 18 يوليو 2017

I do not understand

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18 Ways to gain trust as

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Are you sure you deserve to love?

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الخب كلة

هل انت شايف انك تستاهل تتحب ؟؟؟
ده اختبار بسيط علشان تشوف اذا كنت تستاهل ان حد يحبك ولا متستاهلش يارب يعجبكم
1.
لو حبيبك/حبيبتك اتصلت بيك و قالتلك انا محتجالك قوى ياريت نتقابل حالاً
يا عم نفض يعنى ايه اللى هيحصلها
هسيب كل اللى فالدنيا و اروحلها و اشوف مالها
هقلها طيب اخلص اللى ورايا و اجيلك
2.
لو حبيبك/حبيبتك عيد ميلاده كمان كام يوم
نفش عادى اهو يوم ذى اى يوم
هرتب كل حاجه و هوضب الدنيا علشان يكون احلى عيد ميلاد فحياته
هجبلها هديه و خلاص
3.
لو حبيبك/حبيبتك جابلك هديه منغير منسبه
هقلها ميرسى و اغير الموضوع
هاخدها و هقلها يا حبيبتى/حبيبى بجد انتى اغلى حاجه عندى اغلى من كل هدايا الدنيا
مصلحة اللى يجى من الصعايده فايده
4.
لو حبيبك/حبيبتك عمل حاجه ديقتك اوى
هزعل و مش هكلمها كام يوم و بعدين اسمعها
هقلها احنا مش هينفع نكمل علطول دى جات فوقتها
هزعل بس هسمع منها يكمن تكون الظروف هيا السبب
5.
لو حبيبك/حبيبتك فالمستشفى
هروح اقف جنبه
هتصل بيه
ولا هعبره
6.
لو حبيبك/حبيبتك قالك انه بيحبك قوى
هاقلها وانا كمان
عادى بنسمعها كتير
هبص فعنيها /فهنيه و اقول من كل قلبى وانا حياتى منغيرك ملهاش معنى

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