all body language messages

nor anyone else.

Like all body language messages, this tactile one may
mean many things, but most people see it as a positive—
and powerful—release of sexual energy.
THE BODY LANGUAGE OF SEX 25
My wife always talks me into taking the kids along when
we go for a walk. I feel that they cramp our style, but
she claims they help us communicate even if we don't
speak. How could this be? Can children affect body
language?
They can, but not in the way your wife thinks. A team of
seven researchers at the University of Minnesota went out
during the summer of 1972 and observed 440 couples
with and without children at shopping malls, in business
districts, at the zoo, outside churches and at the beach.
They watched very closely and without being noticed to
see whether each person in the couple was touching,
smiling at, or talking to the other.
The Minnesota researchers found that when men and
women were with children they touched each other less,
talked to each other less, and smiled at each other less.
Children just seemed to get in the way of any kind of
communication!
These results would seem to prove your wife wrong. It
might be a better idea to leave the kids at home when you
go out together—or at least to try and increase the time
you are alone.
The researchers admit that most older people who have
been together for a long time tend to talk less and touch
less anyway. Familiarity, if it doesn't breed contempt, at
least seems to breed disinterest. But even taking this
factor into account, the researchers assure us that children
inhibit communication.
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As for smiling, they admit that adults who are alone
have more to smile about because they're usually interested
in each other. "Young adults of courting age,"
they point out, at dances, on the beach, may smile a
great deal and make us think that if children were around
they'd smile less. The truth is, it's the "country, the beach,
the dances that increase smiling."
All is not hopeless, however. Lest anyone should avoid
having children for fear they would cut down on his
smiling, talking, and touching, the Minnesota team notes
that though children may be a source of difficulty to their
parents, they still increase the ties between the parents.
They still offer substantial rewards to the parents, and
even if the parents touch, smile, and talk less when the
kids are around, they may enjoy the touching, talking,
and smiling more.
I've been dating a girl for three weeks, and I feel like
I'm getting ambivalent signals from her. Are there any
body language signals that will tell me for sure how she
really feels about me?
There are, of course, all the obvious body language
signals. Does she smile when you're around? Does she
look toward you often if you're separated at a party?
Does she seem relaxed when she's alone with you—or
does her body posture become stiff and uncomfortable?
THE BODY LANGUAGE OF SEX
Does she touch you, hold your hand, want to be close to
you physically?
Most people take note of all these signals unconsciously
and resolve them in their unconscious mind. Their conscious
mind then becomes aware of the answer: She/he
likes me, or doesn't like me.
As a rule, you won't choose someone for a girlfriend
unless your subconscious has already added up all the
body language signals and made a decision. We call that
decision attraction or chemistry or interest. In actuality,
it's a mental computer process.
There is also a very subtle clue to like and dislike.
Scientists investigating "pupillometrics" report that when
you see a person you like, the pupils of your eyes respond
by growing larger. Watch for this the next time your
girlfriend sees you.
I met a wonderful girl at a party about a month ago, and
we've been going around together ever since. The only
problem is, she doesn't seem to realize that I'm
interested in her sexually. How can I use body language
to let her know that I want to go bed with her?
I'm just too inhibited to blurt it out!
Your way of looking at her is the chief body language
signal here. Glancing at her body and letting her see the
28 THE BODY LANGUAGE OF SEX
glance is considered, by both men and women, a provocative
and seductive act.
In body contact, you must go beyond mere touching
and let your touch become a caress.
According to questionnaire studies among college students,
some of the body language gestures that spell out
desire are wetting the lips, passing the tip of the tongue
over the lips, and—oddly enough—in married people, playing
with the wedding ring. This seems strange because
the same gesture, used when a man and woman are talking
to each other on nonintimate terms, says 'Tm married
and safe!" But, as with any body language gesture, the
total context of the situation is what counts. If you are a
married man and your intention of seducing the woman is
getting across, the wedding ring gesture sort of spells it
all out.
The most obvious signal for wanting further sexual relations
is the deep kind of kissing that leads to sexual
intimacy. But this presumes that you have built up all
the steps in between.
As an interesting sidelight on what kissing can signal,
in England during World War II the English girls and the
American GIs ran into a body language impasse. The girls
considered the Americans too fast while the GIs thought
the English girls were too fast.
Some careful research on the part of an army psychologist
uncovered the fact that in England, at that time,
it was considered customary for a girl to go to bed with a
THE BODY LANGUAGE OF SEX 29
man shortly after he had kissed her. It usually took a long
time before that first kiss was given.
Americans, on the other hand, were used to kissing at
the start of a friendship, and then expected a long time
before getting the girl into bed. The English girls, the
Americans thought, were fast because it was kiss and into
the sack. The girls thought the soldiers fast because they
wanted to kiss right away—and by English standards, this
meant going to bed right away, too!
I've been having an affair with a man I love very deeply,
but he always wants to begin intercourse too soon,
while I still want more foreplay. How can I let him
know what I want?
You can tell your partner a tremendous amount by the
movement of your body. You can change position by
moving gently away, or you can subtly push his body to
the position you want. In all of this, your movements
should be gentle and ever playful.
Masters and Johnson, in their study of human sexuality,
suggest that since each partner knows his or her own
body and its needs, they should guide each other into
those ways that pleasure them best.
The most important thing in using body language to
communicate your needs during the act of love is to avoid
giving your partner any feeling that you're rejecting him
or withdrawing from the situation. One way to be sure
THE BODY LANGUAGE OF SEX
of this is to initiate some different types of foreplay yourself
without giving your partner the sense that he's inexperienced.
I was at a friend's house recently when I met this really
far-out girl. I could tell she was turned on to me
because she moved closer to me on the couch, but her
date was sitting on her other side. Was there any way I
could have let her know I liked her without annoying her
date? He's a football player!
The smile is always a useful signal to let her know just
how much her appearance pleases you. Since she took
the first step by moving closer, you could have responded
and moved toward her. It shows that you not only recognize
her signal, but you're also answering it with a positive
signal of your own.
An accidental touch or a brush against her is a further
signal of your interest. You might touch her arm or
thigh—or even let your foot touch hers without her date
knowing it. A lovely turn-of-the-century drawing by
Charles Dana Gibson shows a man and woman, under
the girl's mama's watchful eye, making body contact under
the table with their feet while both look innocent and
demure. If body contact is established, don't move away.
Of course, catching her eye and holding it speaks
volumes, but don't let her date catch you at it. You're
right to be careful with football players!
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I have a boyfriend I like very much, but he drives me up
a wall when I speak to him. Sometimes he's just fine, but
there are other times when I get confused. I interrupt
him while he's still speaking, or I wait for him to
continue when he's finished. Often there'll be long pauses
before he answers me, and I feel as if I've lost him.
What's going on?
In conversation, we signal each other with many small
gestures called markers. These tell us when someone is
finished talking and when the other should start. In this
way, a conversation proceeds normally. Your friend's perception
of body language signals and markers seems to
be out of synch.
When we ask a question, for example, our head lifts at
the end of the sentence, or we may raise our hand or the
pitch of our voice. If we want to signal that we intend
to keep on talking, we keep our head, hand, or voice
level. When we answer a question, we lower our head at
the end of the answer.
If we forget these signals, or deliberately don't use
them, or don't know how to use them, the conversation is
often awkward. When one partner takes too long to respond,
ignoring our signal to start, we may interpret his
hesitance as withdrawal or rejection. This may be what is
happening between you and your friend. Take a good
look at his head and hand movements next
Scratching can be a sign of the intensity of your lovemaking
or the expression of a sadistic impulse. But almost
all men respond to being scratched by their sexual
partner and interpret it positively. To them it's a signal
that they're turning a woman on, that they are doing all
the right things. Many women are very negative about
being scratched during sex, but a few welcome it as a
sign of healthy masculine aggression. It turns them on,
too.
Like all body language messages, this 

The body language of sex,

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a lawyer in Colorado, a politician in New York,
an actress in California, a student in Kansas,
a businessman in Louisiana, a farmer in Connecticut,
and all the others who asked
Contents
Foreword 9
The Body Language of Sex 17
The Body Language of Power 91
The Body Language of Aggression 143
Foreword
When I finished the last correction on the galleys of
Body Language, some six years ago, and it was safely off
to the printers, I thought I was done with it and I could
turn all my attention to another project. I was completely
wrong. In terms of the amount of time I've spent on the
subject since then, I was just begnning to become acquainted
with body language.
In the years since the book's publication, I have been
on dozens of television shows and have lectured to groups
all over the United States, groups ranging from teachers'
10 FOREWORD
organizations to trial lawyers and including industrial relations
outfits, colleges, medical societies, women's clubs
and business men.
I have been involved in encounter groups and sensitivity
sessions, have taught a class on the subject and have
been called in as a consultant to politicians and industrialists.
I have, in short, been completely overwhelmed by what
seemed to me, at the very beginning, a very obvious fact
—we communicate with our bodies as well as with our
words. When I taught body language I told my students,
"I'm not going to teach you something new or original.
I'm simply going to open your eyes to what you already
know, to a language all of you use fluently."
Body language is just that, a language we all use and
understand. But it is an unconscious language, and because
of that it is a very honest language. While you can
easily lie with words, it is a lot harder to lie with your
body. The classic proof of this occurred on television
some years back, and the entire nation saw it.
Former President Nixon held a press conference to reassure
the nation that our incursion into Cambodia was
temporary and would not escalate the war. His voice was
smooth, his body movement projected sincerity, and the
over-all impression was confidence. Then one newsman
began asking some pointed and probing questions about
how long we intended to stay in Cambodia.
Again the President reacted smoothly, but an alert TV
cameraman cut in for a tight shot of the President's fist,
FOREWORD 11
clasped so rigidly that the knuckles were white. He held
that shot for the entire answer, and that one, tense bodylanguage
gesture projected rigidity and broadcast a complete
contradiction to everything the President was
saying.
Knowing how important body language is to politicians
who wish to project an air of sincerity, I am not surprised
at the flood of questions I have had from them. Nor am
I surprised at the hundreds of questions I have had from
lawyers' associations over the years. They too have a need
to know how they can master this newly discovered, but
old, old language.
How old is body language? It probably arose long before
humans learned to speak. Certainly men have been
aware of it for thousands of years. On a television talk
show, Hugh Downs pointed out to me that during the
first century A.D. Marcus Fabius Quintilianus, a Roman
rhetorician, held that body language gestures could add
to the dramatic impact of orations.
What did surprise me, wherever I talked, were the
hundreds of people—students, parents, children, husbands,
wives—who pressed me for answers to very personal
questions—who saw, in body language, a means of
getting a little closer to each other, of gaining some meaningful
insights, of communicating on a deeper, more honest
level, of solving their own family problems.
There was the housewife in a TV audience in Cleveland
who, during a question period, fixed me with a
searching stare and asked, "Why does my husband tell
12 FOREWORD
me that I don't know how to look at people?" As she
talked, her eye contact was so intense and beseaching
that I could hardly bear it.
And of course there were many who saw body language
as a "fun and games" thing, a way of broadening
their pleasure potential. One of my students, a handsome
young New Yorker, was quite frank about his reason
for taking the course. "I'm into the singles bar scene, and
I want to learn more about picking up girls."
At the end of the course, I asked him if he had gotten
what he was after. "It's wild," he told me. "I realize that
I used to come on wrong, turn the girls off with the
wrong signals. Now I've changed. I walk into a bar and
I know exactly who to talk to, who's going to respond,
how to let her know I dig her."
There was a young bearded lawyer in Colorado who
asked me, "Do you think my beard projects the wrong
image in court?"
I couldn't answer that except to say, "It depends on the
judge, on the image you want to project in court, on the
case you're involved in and on your age. Does the beard
say wisdom, or does it say hippy? Does it go with a suit
and tie and neat hair and say, Member of the establishment,
but not into a rigid pattern, or does it go with jeans
and an open shirt and beads and say, a bit of a rebel who
goes against convention?"
As with any body language gesture, a beard is only one
part of the total man.
Whatever the questioners' motives were, they all
FOREWORD 13
needed answers, and very soon I became involved in research
again, checking out those centers across the nation
where body language was being studied and analyzed
by psychologists, choreographers, dramatic coaches and
image makers. I was invited to join a public relations firm
setting up a non-verbal communication department for
the election year, a team of clinical psychologists who
wanted to open up a center for body language in therapy,
and on and on. I declined all for reasons of time, morality,
and lack of scientific training, but I picked brains mercilessly
and kept notes and files.
As my files grew, and as the letters poured in with new
questions, I began to realize that in spite of the many
repeats the pattern of questioning ran in only three directions.
People were curious about sex, power and aggression.
This book is the result of those letters and that research.
I've defined each of the three areas broadly and
inevitably there had to be some overlap, but I think that
almost every question on body language has been posed
and answered—but I thought that when Body Language
itself was first published.
—Julius Fast
The Body
Language
of
Sex
My husband and I are in our late fifties, and, while we've
always had a good sex life, recently my husband seems
less interested in sex—which I suppose is very natural
at our age. But at the same time he wants me to touch
him more, to stimulate him more. What does this mean?
I would think his desire to be stimulated by more touch
is a sign of his continuing interest in you. Your husband
still wants the sexual relations you've both enjoyed during
your marriage.
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Dr. Harold Lief, director of the Marriage Council of
Philadelphia, has written that with age a man is less easily
aroused sexually through the cortex, but he needs greater
stimulation locally. In other words, the body contact your
husband asks for now is the physical trigger that will
release his love for you.
My girlfriend says women are equal to men in every way,
but obviously their bodies are different. Is their body
language different, too?
It is very different. Over and above the differences that are
physical, there are the ones that are culturally acquired,
the ones we learn as children. Girl babies are handled
more gently and delicately by their parents, and, as they
grow, are told that certain movements (such as sitting
with their knees apart or taking large strides) are too
unladylike, too boisterous. Boys are encouraged to be
manly—to move with a sure, assertive purposefulness—
and any rough activity they engage in is shrugged off,
since "boys will be boys."
A woman friend of mine who enjoys jogging and other
athletic pursuits was striding down the street enjoying the
spring air, when a man passing by said, "Looks like one
of those typical libbers." This is a good example of a kind
of totally artificial distinction between men and women
made real by cultural conditioning.
Another example of a culturally conditioned sex differTHE
BODY LANGUAGE OF SEX 19
ence shows in the way most women throw a baseball.
Part of the reason most women can't throw as far as men
is that they've been conditioned to feel that moving the
arm from the elbow to the shoulder too far away from the
body is an unladylike gesture—so they tend to throw from
the wrist and lower arm. (And how often do you see
women sitting with their hands clasped behind their
head? That, too, involves moving the upper arm away
from the body, and so, to many women, feels "unfeminine.")
Still another example of a culturally determined body
language is the way in which homosexuals of either sex
tend to parody the body language of the other sex. But
one thing always missing from the impersonations is the

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I learned that the mind , such as agricultural land , and every idea we think for a long time is a process Rey , will only reap what we plant ideas , positive or negative . I learned that at school or university learn the lessons and then face the exams , but in life we are faced with exams and learn the lessons later . I learned that a simple conversation or a short conversation with a wise man is equal to the month of the study . I learned that it does not matter where you are now , but what is important is where to turn at this moment. I learned that it is better for a person to be like the elephant in the right way to be a deer in the wrong way. I've learned that often losing battle teaches you how to win the war . I've learned that there is a lot of learners , but few of them intellectuals . I learned that the key to failure is trying to please everyone you know . I've learned that you should not measure yourself what has been completed so far , but what must be achieved compared to your abilities . I've learned that it 's more people hurt us are the people who gave them all the confidence , because their knowledge of our secrets they use against us disagree with them day .. This is no doubt a betrayal. I've learned that life is very much like a boxing match , it does not matter if you lose 14 round , all you have to do is to drop your opponent by knockout within seconds , بذاك be the sole winner . I learned that success is not everything, but wanting to succeed is everything. I learned that the human must to succeed to avoid people passive and disgruntled , Almji and pessimists and envious .. Because what Icoloh the U.S. if Tgnebenahm considered less harmful than could يسببوه us if not Ntjunbhm .. Boredom and discontent and pessimism of infectious diseases such as cholera .. Always avoid them . I learned that you have entered million in a year does not work 1000 times more than that entered 1000 in a year .. The secret lies in how to turn his mind . I learned that successful people make decisions quickly and slowly Agironha . The losers people make decisions slowly and quickly Agironha . I learned that everything we see great life began with the idea is a small beginning . I've learned that there is always a better way to do something , you should always try to find it. I learned that it is better for a person to regret what he did that bemoans what he did not. I learned that the good work much better than a good speech . I learned that people forget about the speed at which completed your work, but remember the quality of what it has achieved . I learned to compete with the self is the best competition in the world , and whenever compete with himself whenever human evolution, so that they do not have today as it was yesterday, not tomorrow as it is today . I've learned that there are many receive advice , only the few benefit from it . I learned that when you hire people smarter than you , and reach your goals , so prove that you are smarter than them . I learned that from the happiest moments in life are when you check things people say about you can not achieve. I learned that the man can not develop if you do not try something unusual it. I learned that the losers say that success is just a fluke . I learned that it does not achieve the aspirations without suffering. I learned that knowledge is no longer a force in the era of speed , the Internet and the computer, but the application of knowledge is power . I learned that those who have the courage to face failure, who are invincible odds and succeed . I learned that luck in life is a point of encounter between the good preparation and opportunities that pass. I learned that a good climber focused on his goal is not seen to the bottom, where the risk that the dispersion of mind. I learned that failure is not the worst thing in this world , but failure is not to try . I've learned that there are people who swim in the direction of the ship and there are people who are wasting their time waiting for her . I learned that there are two ways to have the tallest building .. Either to destroy all the buildings around you , or to build higher than others .. Always choose to build higher than the others . I learned that one does not end when you lose , but when you withdraw . I learned that it does not achieve anything great in this life without enthusiasm . I learned that who wins in the end who has the stamina and patience. I learned to smile costs nothing , but it means a lot . I learned that all the discoveries and inventions that we are witnessing in the present, has been judged by the discovery or invention as impossible . I learned that attention to neglected simple things most people usually make some people rich. I learned that if I spent a great time and you play any sport , you are the winner even if she loses the outcome . I learned that one of the most effective weapons owned by the man is time and patience. I learned that one should not try to be a successful man , but to try to be a human being has value and then success comes automatically. I learned that the losers are divided into two parts , the department is thinking without implementation , the department implemented without thinking . I learned that the man must be dreaming of stars, but at the same time we must not forget his feet on the ground. I learned that when you laugh you laugh the world, and when you cry you cry alone. I learned that it does not work does not goofing . I learned that success does not dictionary contains the words " if " and " but". I learned that the simple unexpected gift have a much greater impact than a precious gift unexpected. I learned that there are important decisions to be taken by human no matter how difficult and important angered the people around him . I've learned that there is a big difference between retreat and escape . I've learned that if a person can not find something in life to die for, it most likely will not find anything live for. I learned that the fruit tree is attacked by people . I learned that a private discussion and debate with the ignorant loss in every sense of the word .. People do not admit their mistakes easily. I've learned that the most beautiful is the feeling sensations inside you that you have the correct step even Aadhak the world. I learned that happiness is not achieved in the absence of problems in our lives , but they achieved in overcoming these problems. I learned that yesterday is a check has been withdrawn , and tomorrow is imminent deferred , and the present is only available liquidity , therefore we have to Nasrvh wisely . I've learned that , first and foremost , to thank God after all and pray on the beloved prophet upon him blessings and completed the delivery 

لا اريد ان اكون مستشار

لا اريد ان اكون حكيم الزمان
وانا فى الاصل انسان
لى شوقى وعقلى وحبى
لا اريد هذا الانسان وقد كان
اشارت على قلبى  فكان ما كان
ما انا بهارب بل صحوة انسان
لا اريد ان اكون مستشار ليس لة امان
ولا حامل نور يعمى من اهواه
بل حامل مسك يعطر الايام
هل عرفتم من كنت اقصد اياه
لا اظن والظن لا يحسبنى اياه
يمسك بريش طير اسراب اياه؟
لا اريد ان ان يهوا قلبة اياه
غدرت بقلبى حتى انساه
وقتلت شوقى حتى لا اراه
وخنقت نفسى حتى لا اتنفس هواه
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لا اريد ان اكون
لا اريد ان اكون مستشار
ولا حامل نور يعمى الابصار
ونور عقلى سطا علية الاشرار
لا اريد ان اكون مستشار
وفى قلبى اسير محتار
يتلمس نور من خلف الاسوار
لا اريد ان اكون مستشار
تنهل منى وانا المحتاج
عقلى وقلبى يلوزون لمنار
لا اريد ان اكون مستشار
الى من غدرت
ليس من رمزى الغدر
ولا من طبعى الهجر
ولا من قصدى شرب المر
ولا من حبى لكم الكره
ولا من اصلى خلق النمر
سالت ضميرى فاشار
سالت قلبى جعلنى احتار
سالت شوقى شدنى الى النار
سالت نفسى ارفضك وقد كان
جعلت عينى ستار حتى لا اراك
جعلت لسان اسير عن هواك
جعلت يدى على راسى فداك

عبادة الصلبان

. النصارى، الذين سبوا الله الخالق مسبة ما سبه إياها أحد من البشر، ولم يقروا بأنه الواحد الأحد الفرد، الصمد، الذي لم يلد، ولم يولد ولم يكن له كفوا أحد، ولم يجعلوه أكبر من كل شيء بل قالوا فيه ما: (تكاد السموات يتفطرن منه، وتنشق الأرض، وتخر الجبال هداً)، فقل ما شئت في طائفة أصل عقيدتها أن الله ثالث ثلاثة، وأن مريم صاحبته، وأن المسيح ابنه، وأنه نزل عن كرسي عظمته، والتحم ببطن الصاحبة، وجرى له ما جرى إلى أن قتل ومات ودفن، فدينها عبادة الصلبان، ودعاء الصور المنقوشة بالأحمر والأصفر في الحيطان، يقولون في دعائهم:

يا والدة الإله ارزقينا، واغفري لنا وارحمينا!

فدينهم شرب الخمور، وأكل الخنزير، وترك الختان، والتعبد بالنجاسات، واستباحة كل خبيث من الفيل إلى البعوضة، والحلال ما حلله القس، والحرام ما حرمه، والدين ما شرعه، وهو الذي يغفر لهم الذنوب، وينجيهم من عذاب السعير.

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