The composition of the house
Tip 1: Good wife choice
"And deny the days of you and the righteous of your slaves and your illiteracy, that they are poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty, and Allah is broad and knowledgeable."
The owner of the house should choose the right wife under the following conditions:
"The woman shall be married to four: for her money, and for her, for her whole, and for her children, and for the same religion you shall raise your hands" Agreed upon.
"The whole world is full of goods, and the good of this world is good women." Narrated by Muslim, 1468
"To take one of you with a thankful heart, and Sanna said, and a faithful wife appointed him to the Hereafter." Narrated by Ahmad, 5/282, and al-Tirmidhi and Ibn Maajah on the two saheehs of Saheeh, 5231
In the novel "A righteous wife helps you to the matter of your world and your religion is the best of what people took." Narrated by al - Bayhaqi Sahih Al - Jama
"They married the friendly and the newborn, I am multiplied by you the prophets on the Day of Resurrection." Narrated by Ahmad, and it is saheeh al-Irwa '6 195
"You have to fast, they have mercy, and I freshen their mouths, and satisfied with easy." In the novel "and less Khba" ie: deception narrated by Ibn Majah Salsilah correct 623
As a good woman is one of four of happiness, a bad woman is one of four of the misery, as stated in the correct hadeeth, in which he said: "It is happiness: the good woman sees you and you miss her, so she protects herself and the owner, and the saqih: , And her tongue is on you, and if you are absent from it, you have not secured it for herself and the owner. "Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan in the chain of transmission
On the other hand, it is necessary to look into the case of the suitor who is applying to Muslim women, and to approve it according to the following conditions:
"If you are satisfied with his religion and his creation, marry him, but you do not have strife in the land and corruption is wide."
In all of the above, good question and scrutiny of research and gathering information and documentation of sources and news so as not to spoil the house or run down.
And the good man with the good woman build a good house, for the good country shall bring forth his plants with the permission of his Lord.
Tip "2" seek to fix the wife
If the wife is good and she is blessed and this is the virtue of God, and if that is not the right, it is the duties of the Lord of the house sought to reform. This may occur in cases such as:
That a man marry a woman who is not religious at all; because he was not interested in the subject of religion is the same in the principle of order, or that he married in the hope of reform, or under the pressure of relatives, for example, here must be completed in the process of reform.
The man must first know that the guidance from God, and God is the one who is fit, and from him to his servant Zakaria said in it: "And reformed his wife" Sura Prophets, verse 90
Whether it was a physical or religious reform, Ibn Abbas said: She was sterile and did not give birth, and said Ataa: it was in the tongue length and reconcile God and the rehabilitation of the wife means, including:
To take care of correcting her worship of God in all kinds, as detailed below.
Seeking to raise her faith in such as:
He urged her to do the night.
And reading the dear book.
And memorizing memorabilia and remembering its times and occasions.
He urged her to give charity.
Reading useful Islamic books .
Hear the Islamic tapes useful; scientific and faith and follow-up supply to them.
The choice of female members of the people of religion to hold with them the bonds of brothers, and exchange with them good conversations and meaningful visits.
To ward off evil from it and to block its rivals against it, by keeping it away from evil and bad places.
Faith at home
Tip 3: Make the house a place for the remembrance of God
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "It is like the house in which Allah is mentioned, and the house where God does not mention the living and the dead."
It is necessary to make the house a place for the male of all kinds, whether mentioning the heart, the tongue, or prayers and reading the Koran, or study the forensic science and read the various books.
How many houses of Muslims today are dead not to mention God, as stated in the hadeeth, but what is the case if what is mentioned is the music of the devil of the psalms and singing, and the absence and confusion and gossip? ...
And how is it full of sins and evils, such as mixing forbidden and arrogance between relatives of non-mahrams, or neighbors who enter the house ?!
How to enter the angels Beta this case?! So live your homes, may God have mercy on you.
Tip 4: Make your home a kiss
The house is meant to be a place of worship.
God - Almighty - said: "And we instructed Moses and his brother to give your people in Egypt homes and make your homes kiss and establish prayer and the flesh of the believers," Yunus verse 87
Ibn Abbas said: They ordered them to take mosques.
Ibn Katheer said: "This was - and God knows best - when the scourge of Pharaoh and his people intensified, and they were oppressed by them, they ordered the great prayer, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):" O you who believe, seek patience and prayer. " The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him if his grief prayed. "
This shows the importance of worship in homes, especially in times of vulnerability, as well as what happens in certain situations when Muslims can not show their ties to infidels. In this regard, we also remember the mihrab of Mary, the place of worship in which God said: "Whenever Zachariah entered the mihrab, he found a livelihood." Surah Al-Imran, verse 37
The Sahaabah - may Allah be pleased with them - are keen to pray in the houses - in the non - obligatory - this is a story in which: on the authority of Mahmoud bin Rabee Al - Ansari, that Atban bin Malik - one of the companions of the Prophet peace be upon him, who witnessed a group of Ansar - He came to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, he said: O Messenger of God! I have denied my eyes and I pray for my nation, if the rain was the valley between me and them I could not come to their mosque and pray to them, and I wanted the Messenger of Allah that you come to pray in my house and took him to pray, said: The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: "I will - Allah - " . Atban said: The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, and Abu Bakr when the day rose and asked permission
Tip 1: Good wife choice
"And deny the days of you and the righteous of your slaves and your illiteracy, that they are poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty, and Allah is broad and knowledgeable."
The owner of the house should choose the right wife under the following conditions:
"The woman shall be married to four: for her money, and for her, for her whole, and for her children, and for the same religion you shall raise your hands" Agreed upon.
"The whole world is full of goods, and the good of this world is good women." Narrated by Muslim, 1468
"To take one of you with a thankful heart, and Sanna said, and a faithful wife appointed him to the Hereafter." Narrated by Ahmad, 5/282, and al-Tirmidhi and Ibn Maajah on the two saheehs of Saheeh, 5231
In the novel "A righteous wife helps you to the matter of your world and your religion is the best of what people took." Narrated by al - Bayhaqi Sahih Al - Jama
"They married the friendly and the newborn, I am multiplied by you the prophets on the Day of Resurrection." Narrated by Ahmad, and it is saheeh al-Irwa '6 195
"You have to fast, they have mercy, and I freshen their mouths, and satisfied with easy." In the novel "and less Khba" ie: deception narrated by Ibn Majah Salsilah correct 623
As a good woman is one of four of happiness, a bad woman is one of four of the misery, as stated in the correct hadeeth, in which he said: "It is happiness: the good woman sees you and you miss her, so she protects herself and the owner, and the saqih: , And her tongue is on you, and if you are absent from it, you have not secured it for herself and the owner. "Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan in the chain of transmission
On the other hand, it is necessary to look into the case of the suitor who is applying to Muslim women, and to approve it according to the following conditions:
"If you are satisfied with his religion and his creation, marry him, but you do not have strife in the land and corruption is wide."
In all of the above, good question and scrutiny of research and gathering information and documentation of sources and news so as not to spoil the house or run down.
And the good man with the good woman build a good house, for the good country shall bring forth his plants with the permission of his Lord.
Tip "2" seek to fix the wife
If the wife is good and she is blessed and this is the virtue of God, and if that is not the right, it is the duties of the Lord of the house sought to reform. This may occur in cases such as:
That a man marry a woman who is not religious at all; because he was not interested in the subject of religion is the same in the principle of order, or that he married in the hope of reform, or under the pressure of relatives, for example, here must be completed in the process of reform.
The man must first know that the guidance from God, and God is the one who is fit, and from him to his servant Zakaria said in it: "And reformed his wife" Sura Prophets, verse 90
Whether it was a physical or religious reform, Ibn Abbas said: She was sterile and did not give birth, and said Ataa: it was in the tongue length and reconcile God and the rehabilitation of the wife means, including:
To take care of correcting her worship of God in all kinds, as detailed below.
Seeking to raise her faith in such as:
He urged her to do the night.
And reading the dear book.
And memorizing memorabilia and remembering its times and occasions.
He urged her to give charity.
Reading useful Islamic books .
Hear the Islamic tapes useful; scientific and faith and follow-up supply to them.
The choice of female members of the people of religion to hold with them the bonds of brothers, and exchange with them good conversations and meaningful visits.
To ward off evil from it and to block its rivals against it, by keeping it away from evil and bad places.
Faith at home
Tip 3: Make the house a place for the remembrance of God
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "It is like the house in which Allah is mentioned, and the house where God does not mention the living and the dead."
It is necessary to make the house a place for the male of all kinds, whether mentioning the heart, the tongue, or prayers and reading the Koran, or study the forensic science and read the various books.
How many houses of Muslims today are dead not to mention God, as stated in the hadeeth, but what is the case if what is mentioned is the music of the devil of the psalms and singing, and the absence and confusion and gossip? ...
And how is it full of sins and evils, such as mixing forbidden and arrogance between relatives of non-mahrams, or neighbors who enter the house ?!
How to enter the angels Beta this case?! So live your homes, may God have mercy on you.
Tip 4: Make your home a kiss
The house is meant to be a place of worship.
God - Almighty - said: "And we instructed Moses and his brother to give your people in Egypt homes and make your homes kiss and establish prayer and the flesh of the believers," Yunus verse 87
Ibn Abbas said: They ordered them to take mosques.
Ibn Katheer said: "This was - and God knows best - when the scourge of Pharaoh and his people intensified, and they were oppressed by them, they ordered the great prayer, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):" O you who believe, seek patience and prayer. " The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him if his grief prayed. "
This shows the importance of worship in homes, especially in times of vulnerability, as well as what happens in certain situations when Muslims can not show their ties to infidels. In this regard, we also remember the mihrab of Mary, the place of worship in which God said: "Whenever Zachariah entered the mihrab, he found a livelihood." Surah Al-Imran, verse 37
The Sahaabah - may Allah be pleased with them - are keen to pray in the houses - in the non - obligatory - this is a story in which: on the authority of Mahmoud bin Rabee Al - Ansari, that Atban bin Malik - one of the companions of the Prophet peace be upon him, who witnessed a group of Ansar - He came to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, he said: O Messenger of God! I have denied my eyes and I pray for my nation, if the rain was the valley between me and them I could not come to their mosque and pray to them, and I wanted the Messenger of Allah that you come to pray in my house and took him to pray, said: The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: "I will - Allah - " . Atban said: The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, and Abu Bakr when the day rose and asked permission
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