السبت، 7 مارس 2015


Women in Islam versus Judaeo-Christian Tradition The Myth & The Reality




Introduction
Five years ago, I read in the Toronto Star issue of July 3, 1990 an article titled "Islam is not alone in patriarchal doctrines", by Gwynne Dyer. The article described the furious reactions of the participants of a conference on women and power held in Montreal to the comments of the famous Egyptian feminist Dr. Nawal Saadawi. Her "politically incorrect" statements included : "the most restrictive elements towards women can be found first in Judaism in the Old Testament then in Christianity and then in the Quran"; "all religions are patriarchal because they stem from patriarchal societies"; and "veiling of women is not a specifically Islamic practice but an ancient cultural heritage with analogies in sister religions".
The participants could not bear sitting around while their faiths were being equated with Islam. Thus, Dr. Saadawi received a barrage of criticism. "Dr. Saadawi's comments are unacceptable. Her answers reveal a lack of understanding about other people's faiths," declared Bernice Dubois of the World Movement of Mothers. "I must protest" said panelist Alice Shalvi of Israel women's network, "there is no conception of the veil in Judaism." The article attributed these furious protests to the strong tendency in the West to scapegoat Islam for practices that are just as much a part of the West's own cultural heritage. "Christian and Jewish feminists were not going to sit around being discussed in the same category as those wicked Muslims," wrote Gwynne Dyer.
I was not surprised that the conference participants had held such a negative view of Islam, especially when women's issues were involved. In the West, Islam is believed to be the symbol of the subordination of women par excellence. In order to understand how firm this belief is, it is enough to mention that the Minister of Education in France, the land of Voltaire, has recently ordered the expulsion of all young Muslim women wearing the veil from French schools [1]! A young Muslim student wearing a headscarf is denied her right of education in France, while a Catholic student wearing a cross or a Jewish student wearing a skullcap is not. The scene of French policemen preventing young Muslim women wearing headscarves from entering their high school is unforgettable. It inspires the memories of another equally disgraceful scene of Governor George Wallace of Alabama in 1962 standing in front of a school gate trying to block the entrance of black students in order to prevent the desegregation of Alabama's schools. The difference between the two scenes is that the black students had the sympathy of so many people in the U.S. and in the whole world. President Kennedy sent the U.S. National Guard to force the entry of the black students. The Muslim girls, on the other hand, received no help from any one. Their cause seems to have very little sympathy either inside or outside France. The reason is the widespread misunderstanding and fear of anything Islamic in the world today.
What intrigued me the most about the Montreal conference was one question : Were the statements made by Saadawi, or any of her critics, factual ? In other words, do Judaism, Christianity, and Islam have the same conception of women? Are they different in their conceptions ? Do Judaism and Christianity , truly, offer women a better treatment than Islam does? What is the Truth?
It is not easy to search for and find answers to these difficult questions. The first difficulty is that one has to be fair and objective or, at least, do one's utmost to be so. This is what Islam teaches. The Quran has instructed Muslims to say the truth even if those who are very close to them do not like it:
    "Whenever you speak, speak justly, even if a near relative is concerned" (6:152) "O you who believe stand out firmly for justice, as witnesses to Allah, even as against yourselves, or your parents or your kin, and whether it be (against) rich or poor" (4:135).
For years, misconceptions about the roles which Muslim women play have abounded. Many people believe that Muslim women are slaves to their husbands, beaten by their husbands, forced by their husbands to cover or that they are completely devoid of rights. In essence, none of this is true. There may be individual cases where these actions may occur, but the same can be stated about any religion or culture. In Islam, however, it is very easy to differentiate between the action of the individual, and the teachings of Islam.
Islam is based upon the teachings of the Glorious Quran and the tradition of the prophet, may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him. The tradition of the prophet (PBUH) is collected in a series of narrations, collectively know as the Hadiths. Through the Quran and the Hadiths, we, as Muslims can identify our roles, rights and duties.
These sources have some passages which are meant for all Muslims, male or female. There are some which have been dedicated to men, while others speak only to women. With the help of these sources, we, as Muslims, learn our freedoms and our limitations.
In reference to women, the Quran and the Hadiths have mandated various rules in regard to behavior, appearance and rights. Some of these may seem constricting to western women, causing them to pity Muslim women, but these women fail to realize that Muslim women do not feel constricted by these rules; we feel liberated, and in fact, as Muslim women we should pity western women. The Muslim woman is not forced to display herself to find a husband. She does not lower herself into competition with other women, using her body as a lure. Secondly, the Muslim women supports no man. Her property is off limits to her husband. It is his duty to provide for her and her children, regardless of her personal wealth. Thirdly, the man has no right to physically harm his wife. While some western scholars negate this by quoting from the Quran that a man is allowed to beat his wife, they fail to mention that the only condoned instrument for this beating is a siwak. (A siwak is a piece of wood, used as a toothbrush, about as thick as a pencil, and about half the length.) It is highly doubtful that this instrument could cause a child any damage, much less a woman. Yet, in the United States, there are still states which have no laws against a man beating his wife. Even, I once read an article where a man beat his girlfriend and killed her pet rabbit. This man was to six months for beating the woman but six years for killing the rabbit. What kind of society values the life of a rabbit more than the welfare of its women. Allah is the Just, the Supreme. Furthermore, Islam gave women the right to own property, work, inherit, and divorce long before the West had even decided that women were human and that they had souls.

The Danish writer Wieth Kordsten explained the view of the Catholic Church towards women. He said: “During the Middle Ages very little care was given to women, following the teaching of the Catholic church which regarded woman as a second class creation.” In France, a council in 586 CE decided to research the case of woman and whether she was to be counted as human or not. After some discussion, they decided that woman was human, but she was created to serve man. 
The 217th clause of the French law states the following: “A married woman – even if her marriage is based on the condition of separating what belongs to her and what belongs to her husband – is not permitted to give anything as a gift or to transfer any of her property or use it as collateral, or to take possession of anything whether in return for payment or otherwise, without her husband being a party to the contract or agreeing to it in writing.” 
In England, Henry VIII forbade the English woman to read the Bible. Until 1850 CE women were not counted as citizens, and until 1882 CE they did not have any personal rights. 
(Silsilat Maqaarinah al-Adyaan, by Dr. Ahmad Shalaby, vol. 3, p. 210-213) 
As for contemporary woman in Europe, America and other industrial nations, she is a creature which is degraded and abused for commercial purposes. She is a feature of advertising campaigns, and things have reached a stage where she takes off her clothes in order to advertise products on posters, and she sells and displays her body according to systems devised by men, so that she is no more than an object of pleasure for them in every place.  
Woman is cared for so long as she is able to give and contribute physically or mentally. When she becomes old and cannot give any more, society – individuals and institutions – forsakes her and she lives alone in her house or in a mental hospital. 
Compare this – and there is no comparison – with the teachings of the Noble Qur’aan, in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): 
“The believers, men and women, are Awliya’ (helpers, supporters, friends, protectors) of one another”
[al-Tawbah 9:71] 

الثلاثاء، 3 مارس 2015

كتب الله لقلبى حبها---فانارت الكون بجمالها ----اجعلنى انا وقلبى حبيبها---وتنفست شوقا لانفاسى --اجعلنى ياربى من هواها ---اجعلنى يا رب من رزقى وحلالى---واجعل حبها سعدى وهناءئ ---واجعل حبها نور سرمدى---اسالك ياربى حبها وودها -سالت الله ان يدوم حبها----ويسعد قلبها ,urgih* *ياربى لا تلومنى على حبها---فحبك احلى من شهدها* *قلبى يشدوا بانوارها---ونور الله امل العاشقى* *جمعت روحى بروحها----فجمعنا فى جنتك العاليا* *يارب اشهد ان حبها عفاف ورضا--فجعلنى وقلبى سبب سعدها* *يارب القى على محبتك----فانت الكريم بحبك احبها* *ياربى هل اذنبت بحبها---فقلبى اسير حبك وحبهااغفر لى يارب هفوات قلبى----فانت الرحيم بقلبى وقلبها*  كتب الله لقلبى حبها---فانارت الكون بجمالها سالت الله ان يدوم حبها----ويسعد قلبها وعقلهاياربى لا تلومنى على حبها---فحبك احلى من شهدها قلبى يشدوا بانوارها.

كتب الله لقلبى حبها-

كتب الله لقلبى حبها---فانارت الكون بجمالها ----اجعلنى انا وقلبى حبيبها---وتنفست شوقا لانفاسى --اجعلنى ياربى من هواها ---اجعلنى يا رب من رزقى وحلالى---واجعل حبها سعدى وهناءئ ---واجعل حبها نور سرمدى---اسالك ياربى حبها وودها -سالت الله ان يدوم حبها----ويسعد قلبها واهلها* *ياربى لا تلومنى على حبها---فحبك احلى من شهدها* *قلبى يشدوا بانوارها---ونور الله امل العاشقى* *جمعت روحى بروحها----فجمعنا فى جنتك العاليا* *يارب اشهد ان حبها عفاف ورضا--فجعلنى وقلبى سبب سعدها* *يارب القى على محبتك----فانت الكريم بحبك احبها* *ياربى هل اذنبت بحبها---فقلبى اسير حبك وحبهااغفر لى يارب هفوات قلبى----فانت الرحيم بقلبى وقلبها* [image: كتب الله لقلبى حبها---فانارت الكون بجمالها سالت الله ان يدوم حبها----ويسعد قلبها واهلها ياربى لا تلومنى على حبها---فحبك احلى من شهدها قلبى يشدوا بانوارها.

الجمعة، 27 فبراير 2015

あなたに切望私を殺すながら

あなたに切望私を殺すながら
そして、自分自身を音声のアクセスをくじか
GAは団結し、私の心Nbadatで目立つように
彼らはあなた..とRouhytalmはなく、あなたの魂を運ぶ:私たちは、私たちに何があるか明らかにすることはできません場合には___
苦悩に満ちた:私たちはリス族たちNashgahmから見ると___
苦悩に満ちた:それらAchtyakna瞬間に私たちが発音をBmstaqことができない場合。
... ... ... ...
私は知らない:私たちは話すことができない、または音声が私たちに失敗した1である私たちは?
沈黙最高の言語の言語がどのような表現のための沈黙の無力た場合を表現するために???:彼らは言う!
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Forget the Kasai and I'm the loser Imre

Yourself
Beautiful words
Forget the Kasai and I'm the loser Imre
Forget Kasai love with the most beautiful and the best angel
O my Lord, have mercy of this admonition


Kasai lighter and Ante owner heartfelt
Ante killers without a weapon

My love is the most powerful weapon
If Lee Wing
My heart flew to Maak
If I had the same --- a gift for your heart is elusive
Lu Li was the spirit of the heart --- I die you life
I die and you life
How do I forget the love Translucent --- treachery days

If I was able to mix his cell of our body and one
Love singles and after you Alllam
And close you happier and Khanank grams




How forget the occasional Bhoak


And how Anamahb and friendly

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