Do not say to your child

Do not say to your child ... Pray, but you will go to the fire .............

 But say ... Come and pray with me to be together in Paradise. Do not say to your child ... Raise your room, which is like karabah ......... ..



But say ... Do you need help in arranging your room because you always like cleanliness and order. Do not tell your child ... Do not play ball at home or the street .......



But say ... the ball place in the garden or I will participate in the club to play ball with your friends. Do not say to your child ... ... study and leave the game, the study is important .......



But say ... if you finish your classes early I will participate in the new PlayStation game or any activity you love. Do not say to your child ... Clean your teeth and I do not need you ............



 But say ... I'm depressed because you always clean your teeth than I do not. Do not tell your child ... Do not forget to wash your hands after food ..........



 But say ... I love the smell of your hands after you wash them. Do not say to your child ... Do not sit at the dining table ...................



But say ... We sit on the chair and eat on the table. Do not say to your child ... Do not paint on the wall and on your feet ....



But say ... draw on paper and when you finish I will hang the painting on the wall or refrigerator or blackboard. Do not say to your child ... What is this drawing, these strange shackles .......



 But say .. I was impressed by your beautiful colors, I liked your lines fixed, I liked your sunshine, you can express your drawing

 Sweet, Min this girl in the painting, the car is Rayha, the windows are not open. Do not tell your child ... Do not sleep on the left side ...................



But say ... The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him and his family and peace to sleep on the right side (clarify benefits)
Do not tell your child ... Do not eat chocolate because your teeth do not decay ....

But I say ... I allowed you to eat chocolates once a day because you shared and always cleaned your teeth. Do not say to your child ... you stupid why you could not answer the question ...



But say ... you have the right question needs help and the second question will solve it on your own because you are intelligent. Do not say to your child ... Do not touch the pot, do not play with sulfur sticks and do not open the window and ... etc. and you are out of the house ... ..



 But say ... watch TV or paint and color on paper or play with your new games or build my house with cubes ..etc.


همسة:


Keep away from negative suggestion and use positive suggestion, and always prefer to provide alternatives when

 Prevent your child from trying to provide him with an alternative if possible.
Example of clarification ....
Your baby likes to jump on the bed ...... say his bed making to sleep but if you love jumping

 I will buy you a mint and put it in the garden to jump on it as you like.
Or at the end of the week we will take you to the amusement park and your knees and jump on it until you tire. Nice to give from

 He asks what he needs ... but the most beautiful thing is to give the one who does not ask you and you know his need ...