السبت، 7 ديسمبر 2013

رسالة

مش مهم تعلق او ترسل رسالة شكر على كلامى المهم انك استفد  وعرفت وتعلمت بشعر انى قدمت شى للانسانية التى لها اكبر حق عليا المهم ان تعرف انى مسلم محب لكل الناس  واتمنا لكم كل سعادة وحب  وان تكون مسلم من اهل الجنة 0000000اخيكم احمد المصرى

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الجمعة، 6 ديسمبر 2013

سر السعادة


رغم أن ذلك قد يغضب كثيرا من السيدات، رأى باحثون بريطانيون أن سر الحياة السعيدة والطويلة يكمن في الاقتران بزوجة ثانية.
وقال الباحثون في جامعة شفيلد البريطانية إن هذا ما توصلوا إليه بعد اكتشافهم "فوائد" الزواج من امرأتين في الوقت نفسه، والاطلاع على إحصاءات أعدتها منظمة الصحة العالمية حول البلدان التي تسمح بتعدد الزوجات والنتائج الايجابية لذلك ومنها أن عمر الزوج الذي يقترن بأخرى يزداد أكثر من غيره بنسبة 12%.
وذكرت صحيفة "الدايلي مايل" أمس أن الدراسة التي نشرت في العدد الأخير من مجلة "نيو ساينتيست" أشارت إلى أن الرجل الذي يتزوج من أكثر من امرأة وتكون لديه عائلة كبيرة يحظى برعاية أفضل خلال مرحلة الكهولة ويعيش لفترة أطول.
وقال لانس ووركمان الاختصاصي في تطور علم النفس في جامعة باث سبا البريطانية "إذا كان لديك أكثر من زوجة فقد يعتنين بك وتعيش لفترة أطول، لأننا نعرف أنه حتى الرجل الذي يقترن بامرأة واحدة يعيش لفترة أطول من العازب".
وأضاف ووركمان "إذا نظرت إلى المجتمعات التي تسمح بتعدد الزوجات ترى الرجال يتنافسون بقوة مع الرجال الآخرين لأن ضغوطات الحياة التي يواجهونها أكبر". وأشار إلى أن المرأة تبحث عن الرجل الأكبر حجما والأكثر قوة وحكمة. ودعم هذا الرأي كريس ولسون عالم الانثروبولوجيا في جامعة كورنيل الامريكية الذي قال إنه من المفيد للرجل عند الكهولة أن يكون محاطاً بالنساء. وأضاف "لا تدهشني معرفة أن الرجال في المجتمعات التي تسمح بتعدد الزوجات يعيشون لفترة أطول من نظرائهم في المجتمعات التي لا تسمح إلا بزوجة واحدة، وبخاصة عندما يصبحون أرامل ولا يجدون أحداً يهتم بهم" ؛ حسب صحيفة الخليج الإماراتية .

الرقيه الشرعيه الصحيحه للاطفال

الرقيه الشرعيه الصحيحه للاطفال
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لاحظت ان كثير من الأمهات لاتعرف طرق التحصين الصحيحه ، فبعض الامهات تقرا المعوذات الثلاث مرة واحده وتعتبر هكذا حصنت اطفالها والبعض الاخر يقول استودعتكم الله
لذالك كتبت هذا الموضوع لكي افيدكم بطرق التحصين الصحيحه:

تضع الأم يدها على رأس الطفل ثم

1- تقرأ سورة الفاتحه
2- و آية الكرسي
3- و أخر ايتين من سورة البقره وهما

آَمَنَ الرَّسُولُ بِمَا أُنْزِلَ إِلَيْهِ مِنْ رَبِّهِ وَالْمُؤْمِنُونَ كُلٌّ آَمَنَ بِاللَّهِ وَمَلَائِكَتِهِ وَكُتُبِهِ وَرُسُلِهِ لَا نُفَرِّقُ بَيْنَ أَحَدٍ مِنْ رُسُلِهِ وَقَالُوا سَمِعْنَا وَأَطَعْنَا غُفْرَانَكَ رَبَّنَا وَإِلَيْكَ الْمَصِيرُ (٢٨٥) لَا يُكَلِّفُ اللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا لَهَا مَا كَسَبَتْ وَعَلَيْهَا مَا اكْتَسَبَتْ رَبَّنَا لَا تُؤَاخِذْنَا إِنْ نَسِينَا أَوْ أَخْطَأْنَا رَبَّنَا وَلَا تَحْمِلْ عَلَيْنَا إِصْرًا كَمَا حَمَلْتَهُ عَلَى الَّذِينَ مِنْ قَبْلِنَا رَبَّنَا وَلَا تُحَمِّلْنَا مَا لَا طَاقَةَ لَنَا بِهِ وَاعْفُ عَنَّا وَاغْفِرْ لَنَا وَارْحَمْنَا أَنْتَ مَوْلَانَا فَانْصُرْنَا عَلَى الْقَوْمِ الْكَافِرِينَ (٢٨٦)

4- و سورة الاخلاص 3مرات
5- و سورة الفلق 3مرات
6- و سورة الناس 3مرات
ثم تقول بسم الله 3مرات
و تقول اعيذك بعزة الله وقدرته من شر ماتجد وتحاذر 7مرات
ثم تقول (بسم الله الذي لايضر مع اسمه شيئ في الارض ولافي السماء وهو السميع العليم)
و تقول ( استودعتك الله الذي لاتضيع ودائعه)
ثم تمسح على راس الطفل وجسمه

وهكذا ترتاح الام من العين والامراض ومن العدوى من الاطفال وكل شي مقدر ومكتوب (قل لن يصيبنا الاماكتب الله لنا)
(ولا يرد القدر إلا الدعااااء)

الرجاء تمريرها لجميع الامهات
ولا تنسونا من صالح الدعاء
وجزاكم الله خيرا

the Divine Messages


Among the blessings and favors that God has bestowed upon humanity is that He endowed them with an innate ability to recognize and acknowledge His existence.  He placed this awareness deep in their hearts as a natural disposition that has not changed since human beings were first created.  Furthermore, He reinforced this natural disposition with the signs that he placed in Creation that testify to His existence.  However, since it is not possible for human beings to have a detailed knowledge of God except through revelation from Himself, God sent His Messengers to teach the people about their Creator Who they must worship.  These Messengers also brought with them the details of how to worship God, because such details cannot be known except by way of revelation.  These two fundamentals were the most important things that the Messengers of all the divine revelations brought with them from God.  On this basis, all the divine revelations have had the same lofty objectives, which are:
1.    To affirm the Oneness of God - the praised and glorified Creator – in His essence and His attributes.
2.    To affirm that God alone should be worshipped and that no other being should be worshipped along with Him or instead of Him.
3.    To safeguard human welfare and oppose corruption and evil.  Thus, everything that safeguards faith, life, reason, wealth and lineage are part of this human welfare that religion protects.  On the other hand, anything that endangers these five universal needs is a form of corruption that religion opposes and prohibits.
4.    To invite the people to the highest level of virtue, moral values, and noble customs.
The ultimate goal of every Divine Message has always been the same: to guide the people to God, to make them aware of Him, and to have them worship Him alone.  Each Divine Message came to strengthen this meaning, and the following words were repeated on the tongues of all the Messengers: “Worship God, you have no god other than Him.” This message was conveyed to humanity by prophets and messengers which God sent to every nation.  All of these messengers came with this same message, the message of Islam.
All the Divine Messages came to bring the life of the people into willing submission to God.  For this reason, they all share the name of “Islam”, or “submission” derived from the same word as “Salam”, or “peace”, in Arabic.  Islam, in this sense, was the religion of all the prophets, but why does one see different variations of the religion of God if they all emanated from the same source?  The answer is twofold.   
The first reason is that as a result of the passage of time, and due to the fact that previous religions were not under the Divine protection of God, they underwent much change and variation.  As a result, we see that the fundamental truths which were brought by all messengers now differ from one religion to another, the most apparent being the strict tenet of the belief and worship of God and God alone.
The second reason for this variation is that God, in His infinite Wisdom and eternal Will, decreed that all the divine missions prior to the final message of Islam brought by Muhammad, may the mercy and blessings of God be upon him, be limited to a specific time frame.  As a result, their laws and methodologies dealt with the specific conditions of the people whom they had been sent to address.
Humanity has passed through numerous periods of guidance, misguidance, integrity, and deviation, from the most primitive age to the heights of civilization.  Divine guidance accompanied humanity through all of this, always providing the appropriate solutions and remedies.
This was the essence of the disparity that existed between the different religions.  This disagreement never went beyond the particulars of the Divine Law.  Each manifestation of the Law addressed the particular problems of the people it was meant for.  However, the areas of agreement were significant and many, such as fundamentals of faith; the basic principles and objectives of the Divine Law, such as protecting faith, life, reason, wealth, and lineage and establishing justice in the land; and certain fundamental prohibitions, some of the most important of these being idolatry, fornication, murder, theft, and giving false witness.  Moreover, they also agreed upon moral virtues like honesty, justice, charity, kindness, chastity, righteousness, and mercy.  These principles as well as others are permanent and lasting; they are the essence of all the Divine Messages and bind them all together.

Islam’s arguments based on intellectual reasoning



The nature of religious faith is quite mysterious.  As part of their religious faiths, people believe in a variety of deities.  There are people who have religious faith in the unseen supreme inimitable power, and then there are others who believe in some humans as Gods, or animals (e.g.  monkeys), fire, idols made of stone, and the list goes on.
A lot is associated with having a religious “faith”.  Part of it has to do with beliefs passed on through generations.  People’s identities therefore get tied to it.  Many times, these beliefs and associated feelings are not completely demonstrable by reason or any rational arguments.  There is nothing right or wrong with this, but that’s just how the nature of religious faith has come to be.
Almost everyone thinks they are right in their faith and beliefs.  Being with people and groups with similar faith further strengthens people’s faith, and they see it as right, even though logical reasoning and argument sometimes can’t explain it all.  That’s simple human psychology.

 Islam’s arguments based on intellectual reasoning

Muslims believe however, that the Islamic religion is different in this context.  One may argue that similar to other faiths there are aspects of it which are not completely demonstrable by reason, but on the other hand the Quranic text, which is God’s words addressing humanity at large, uses intellectual reason, critical thinking, and the process of reflection as a means not only to reinforce the faith of the believers, but also to call non-believers to ponder about the authenticity of Islam as the way of life for humanity at large.  Although no religious beliefs can be fully based on logic and reasoning, Islam and Quran provide more than enough examples and an opportunity to examine the truth and the soundness of its message through the lens of empirical evidence and knowledge.
No one (Muslim or otherwise) would argue that critical thinking and reflection can be a major catalyst for changing ones life.  Critical thinking has been used by many to improve their lives simply because a critical thinker asks probing questions about a situation, collects as much information as possible, reflects on the ideas collected and generated in context of the information available, keeps an open and unbiased mind, and carefully scrutinizes assumptions and seeks alternatives.   
This is the reason, therefore, that new Muslim converts would attribute the use of intelligent reasoning, reflection and critical thinking when explaining their journey to Islam.  Such people cut through the hysteria created in the media to view Islam from a critical lens and following the truth thus comes naturally to them as part of this process.  How else can one explain the increase in conversions with the increase of anti-Islamic rhetoric? How else can one explain that more non-Muslim preachers have been converting to Islam than ever before? Although, as Muslims, we believe that guidance comes only from Allah, the use of a person’s God-gifted intellectual reasoning has a very powerful role to play in Muslim converts making that destiny changing decision.  And once converted, they rarely go back to their old faiths, simply because a faith whose foundations are built on logic and reason is much less likely to be shaken down than one which simply builds upon a set of rites and sacraments.

  Reasons attributed by new Converts

Some of the reasons given why people convert to Islam are the eloquence of the Quran’s language, its overwhelming scientific evidence and proofs, arguments rooted in intellectual reasoning, and the Divine wisdom behind various social issues.   The uniqueness and beauty of the Quran’s text has been marveled by the best of Arab linguists and scholars, both Muslim and otherwise, from the days it was revealed until today.  The more knowledgeable people are in the language, the more they appreciate the wonders of the textual fluency of the Quran.    Revealed more than 1400 years ago, the Quran also has numerous scientific facts that are being validated by science only in this era.    Furthermore, it is the only known religious text that challenges mankind to think, reflect and ponder over the creation at large, social issues, God’s existence, and more.  The Quran, in many instances, challenges people to reflect and think on their own, rather than heeding the loose talk of those whose criticism is based on baseless foundations.    Finally, the Quran provides a solution to numerous social issues, deviation from which has been known to cause societal chaos at all levels. 
The Quran is a confident assertion of a Supreme Being; the only known religious book that has a confident assertion of a Supreme Being on all issues ranging from the creation of the universe to most particular components of the social milieu.   Moreover, its Divine Text - the language and prose of the Quran - is very different from the language in the Prophet’s sayings, which demonstrates that the Quran is not from the creative imagination or inspired words of Prophet Muhammad, as many doubters have alleged in the past, and continue to do even today. 
We can see that most of these reasons can only be attributed to the process of critical thinking and intellectual reflection.   However, cold reasoning is not enough.   The heart has to be engaged in the search: a search whose aim is to reach for the truth at its core.   No wonder, then, that when such sincere people hear the Quran for the first time, and understand it, they say:
“We believe in it; surely, it is the Truth from our Lord.   Indeed, even before it, we were Muslims!” (Quran 28:53)
 
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go out for God's

1) - if we wanted to go out for God's sake get out of four :

1 - esteem.
2 - money .
3 - Time wife . (Get off from work ) .
4 - the lack of God .

(2) - out for the sake of God, we work in four acts :

In order to apply it in place and it is necessary to mention the order because it is the same order of the revelation to the Prophet, peace be upon him , and the same order of receipt of noble Companions , God bless them for religion :
(1-2 ) - the call to God and is divided into four .... :
1 - Call confinement . ( Mixing )
2 - call social . ( The statement)
3 - Invite privacy . (Clicks )
4 - call sheet . ( Round )

(2-2) teaching and learning and is divided into four .... :
1 - correct read the Koran .
2 - the virtues of work .
3 - memorization of recipes and their companions .
4 - memorization of assets and literature .

(3-2 ) - and worship the male and divided into four .... :
1 - prayer in congregation with the opening takbeer .
2 - read part of the Quran daily .
3 - Maintain Adhkaar morning and evening .
4 - Maintain the night with prayer and Altd Ra to God .

(4-2 ) - Ethics and the service is divided into four .... :
1 - Service official group.
2 - self- service .
3 - Community service .
4 - serve the people of the neighborhood.

(3) - to get out for the sake of God, we are committed to four :
1 - obedience to an official of the group.
2 - the sanctity of mosques and houses .
3 - Provide social business to unilateral actions .
4 - Patience on the conditions and carry loved ones .

(4) - to go out in the way of Allah Njtenb four :
1 - extravagant .
2 - supervision.
3 - question.
4 - The use of non- need without permission .

(5) - to go out for God's sake leave four :
1 - politicians .
2 - Alkhlaviat .
3 - controversy.
4 - diseases of the nation .

(6) - in four out of the underestimate :
1 - food only to the extent needed.
2 - a dream only to the extent needed.
3 - to speak only in the remembrance of Allah .
4 - spend time and needs to get out of the mosque, but essential .

(7) - of not dealing with our favor four :
1 - perished .
2 - honor them .
3 - we call them .
4 - remind Mhanohm .

(8) - in dealing with opponents refrain from four :
1 - to respond to them.
2 - for criticism .
3 - detracting from their fate .
4 - for Mnazerthm

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