3) wound from the parent of the same sex
Wound primary parent of the same sex is wound of rejection and lack of communication, which thus prevents a child / her autism him / her. And therefore can not be development of male sexual identity of the boy and feminine girl. This happens in a very early age, one of the year and a half to three years (it is important here also noted that 90% of the brain consists end the third year of a lifetime!) Father who help create personal male's child is the father's strong personal and compassionate at the same time . So if this boy distant or weak hand, or cruel and offensive on the other hand, this wound occurs. To this wound occurs from the parent of the same sex, there are two key factors
- The fact the position of the parent of the same sex (which may be busy working and convinced that the responsibility of children is the responsibility of the mother only. Might also be dismissive of the Born a slave, or perhaps he also was thin (at least internally) and led his paper this to torment as a child and decided to completely rejects tenderness, this may makes him despise tenderness and sensitivity in his son.
- Sensitive personal for the child lead to a meeting of the wound more than others.
 This wound or frustration in autism parent of the same sex at this age leads to defend myself not conscious doing child and has decided (not conscious) that separated himself psychologically for this father to protect himself from the rejection or expect compassion and non-existence. This separation is early and psychological change has started personal homeopathy. This so-called child secession Aldvaaaoa be separated himself from his father and decides not it wants to protect himself from the wound and frustration

After that, we find that the weak male sexual identity formation of Born weaken generally relates to males in the House
 And school. In this case the child feels the separation of males. This separation prevents their united and considered himself one of them, and the same in the case of girls who separated from girls also because of a problem with the mother. So as not boy sexually attracted to children must feel that he is one with them. Non-autistic boys for Born opens the door for sexual attraction
Them, as well as for the girls who do not Atouhdn girls

4) wound from one of the opposite sex
Parent of the opposite sex also play an important role in the formation of a child's sexual identity / child. For boys play several roles of mother can lead to a problem in the formation of male sexual identity with the boy.
First: Mother strong dominant personality, especially when the father is spineless, account to the child and make him unite.
Second: smothering mother love and that she fears for her son too much, preventing the father to take him away from her and afraid of playing male. The mother of one of the teenagers who had been suffering from homosexual tendencies very afraid and disturbed when that happens heavy banter between her children and intervene quickly to stop it and protect child Alodgv insomnia (which is printed which became suffers from homosexual tendencies later).
Third: the mother who hates the father and disparaged him in front of her son and make him hated and rejected and therefore rejects him male identity inadvertently.
Fourth: the mother who in constant disagreement with the father and replaced by his son and make him a "doll."

5) wound of brothers
A child who appears Smata female, in his character or in the small body size or physical disability, may have been subjected to psychological abuse (humiliation or ridicule) or physical (beating) or nationality (sexual assault), of his brothers by more than others.

6) peer wounds
When the child is not united with his father and his brothers, but on the contrary, united with his mother and sisters girls, the character will be prone to allergic and non-violence are not inclined to play physical violent as the rest of the boys. This makes it isolated them and perhaps oppressed them, playing Fastsel and girls with autism. This "separation" from the boys devote separation from masculinity and ذكورته is personally. And remains separate from male and he can not consider himself one of them. This is the stage for the sexual attraction to them later. So as not boy sexually attracted to children must feel that he is one with them. Non-autistic boys for Born opens the door to sexual attraction to them, as well as for the girls who do not Atouhdn girls.

7) Special wound in the flesh
A very important relationship to the father in the composition of individual personal "self-management", where the mother often want "اشعوريا" restore the child or the child to her womb again, or at least treated as still part of it. Father has an essential role in the formation of individuality for each of the boys and girls alike. And Dad help the relationship that the child feels secession of his body from his mother and feels his body Bagtinah and life in this body stable and acceptable. When there is a problem in the relationship with the father, this affects not be a child or adolescent has a good relationship with his own body, and helps it to be his body something special Kalnhafah or obesity or extreme length or minors. This helps to configure the "wound" in relationship to the body and self-image for the body, especially that of school-age children tend to comment on each other's bodies and deal together on the basis of body size or mathematical skills in football, for example, or other. Many homosexuals have severe wounds from peers in this area. Physical abuse severely beat and psychological related to the body, such as humiliating talk about the body, or sexual abuse, all abuses lead to a bad image for the body. Perhaps marches dignity which homosexuals walking naked, is a kind of "pride" is natural and exaggerated as a kind of "backlash" for a sense of ownership of this body.

8) sexual assault
Male child is considered weak, who has a hunger for love male easy prey to fall into the hands of usurpers and violators of children. Proportion of subjected to sexual abuse who have homosexual tendencies up to 80% or 90% in some research. Sexual assault linking sex and satisfy the hunger for love, especially if you do not assault or violent compelling. The sexual pleasure creates accustomed and addicted to sex image that has practice, this sexual addiction devote strengthens homosexuality.

9) social wounds
Social wounds are wounds that deprive us of our need to accept and natural love of the community in which we live and the middle. Social wounds occur in the form of names, labels, and sarcasm, jokes and other. Most of have a tendency sexual felt pain because of the words that were directed to them personally or hear directed to those who exercise practices which they practice. Most of have a tendency homosexual, felt at one time not to social affiliation because they are different and therefore rejected. This rejection leads either to a sense of inferiority or a reaction to a feeling of inferiority through transcendence exaggerated and severe allergies.
10) cultural wounds
Social wounds are what we receive from the people and the communities in which they lived, and the cultural Wound intended. They negative messages that reach the person who has homosexual tendencies of the surrounding culture, the media and the press and the Internet, among others. And through stigmatization and shaming and ostracism and isolation. Or through ideas such as that he was born so and there is no way to change. In addition to these cultural wounds, also wounds "religious" that link to like me through
Clergy or religious institutions which are also characterized by stigma wounds and shaming and notice of guilt.