Part I / art and science of reading peopleWhy is reading other crucial?
The ability to explore the fact others and compatibility with the circumstances surrounding us and the world around us is an innate ability, but they are different in nature from one person to another, and that is human nature, you see that some wish to read other people by looking at their eyes and face to face, while others prefer it in a different way.· It makes me feel disgusted!· Documented in it since that signed my eyes.· I knew he was not only a liar!You read people every day without feeling so where assess whether Chksma good or malignant, sincere or a liar, you basically know the wheat from the precious, and then come read anyone normal, but the problem lies in that most of us do not know how to translate motives behind the emotion, and use what information that comes to us to empower ourselves from the domination of a particular position, so you must understand that what you tell us Mdarkina and our senses is what we have to follow!! But how can we understand what you're saying our senses and how to translate them?When we feel vibrations strong, we do not ask about the illness, if sound weak inside us tells us that there is something that looks wrong or inappropriate, that sound small may be right should listen to him, our bodies know it has a reaction to what is going on inside us and translate for us movements and accommodation.And lies to know others and their discovery of four blades, namely: -1. Talk "talk."2. Sound.3. Body.4. Face.And you will learn some exercises that will help you to improve your abilities on Qrahalachrin, and you will learn how to put these blades in a single frame, makes it easy for you to identify the qualities possessed by someone and that may affect you positively or negatively.
People read the rules: -The ability to develop the skill to read others is not an art, but note, which is a realization refined comes from familiarity with the senses and emotions, such as fear or anger or happiness, which is generated in the brain that controls turn in how to express these feelings through facial expressions and speech. The tone of voice of the person and of the whole and put his body and his face expressions are only a result of the complex Alsatrhwaltnsik between all parts of the body by the brain.
Part II / control blades connect fourFour blades Contact:There are four major communications blades are processed within the brain, two of them talk and sound is acoustically treated, while addressing body and facial movements visually.And despite the fact that there are different areas of the brain dedicated to processing information that is received, the brain up to assess the emotional reaction to these blades emotionally, and the result is the integration of processing four blades together to form a portrait of the individual.Then begins the inner side of the brain in an assessment of the suitability of that person to us, depending on the emotional evaluation of the pattern of an individual's personality, and draw contact blades these pictures more obvious to any feature of the fourteen personal. Through four blades can discover that some of the actions of others may be possible or not possible for you, according to your personality, and thus will be formatted to make the right decisions about who is supposed eligibility and quality in your life.
Listening to speech code:The style of talk shows a lot about your internal truth, what is the use of words and what you say are very important, what it means to others what they are saying? Are they honest?Do you when Imitdhonk mean it already or not? And a lot of questions that should be the focus of other during an interview so that you can analyze what a person is saying effectively, you need to test and thirty-one described help to reveal more information about the personality whom you talk to them.
Listen to audio code:Sound does not lie, is the way in which you speak one of the directories important on the nature of your personality as well as the interviewer, noted that when answer the phone, Vsrie as you can to know the mood of his voice, and there are a lot of stereotypes, but you do not lend attentive enough, as they include the tone of voice (high or low) and the sound quality (fresh or ringing ...) as well as the size and amount of sound, and mainly deals with aspects of mechanical style talk person. and so that we can analyze the decoding and audio anyone and accurately, it is important Onndrick that there nineteen element of the sound has to be knowledge and analysis
View blade body languageLike the blade to Ghalgesd footprint personal, reflecting how walking person, and how sitting and standing, and is considered a head of a critical component for the analysis of blade body language, as well as how to use the arms and legs, for example: What is the distance occupied by a person when sit or Mamkdar closeness you when to stand your neighborhood?Vhfrat body language is a set of movements and gestures and party talk deals that send messages of specific situations and different circumstances show you represent underlying feelings and remove them to the surface, if listening closely to people and watch movements of their bodies and expressions and faces, you'll learn a lot and you will know if Makanwa lie you or telling the truth, and if they love you or not.In order to determine what he wants someone notified him specifically through body language you should be looking or considering multiple elements of how the moves this person, as well as the way in which expresses them for himself, and what it means some of the movements, and pauses and sessions, or conditions.
To look at the blade face:Each face expressions own, and we read people from their faces, and describes the blade face way that seems out a person's face when listening or talking, and perhaps read the language of the face or body of the person is the best device for measuring the mood of the words spoken by,As stated Sigmund Freud (one that does not have eyes see them and ears hear them may convince himself that no Eugdansan can retain one of secrets, if his lips Samttin, has spoken tiptoes, and it shows what goes on inside every look heard by him, which discloses password inside).The person may try to pretend to be something, but during the second part of the reveal and face with what goes on inside it, as Freud said: "It is impossible to hide true feelings."To be able to read the faces you should be familiar with cases expressive faces through fifty one case, the goal is to be fully aware of and accurately including reflect its people's faces when they talk to you, he added, the nuances of facial expressions and behaviors generally gives you different features Tammam face, those features that were not detected with or aware of before, and it will help you to become a strong note.
Ten qualities of the persons skilled reader: -
People who enjoy reading other confidence in Sliqthm and they have a lot of common features among them, here's some of these features to make learning and use the target you: -1. Learn from the experiences of the past and do not repeat the same mistakes, and remember the good feeling in negative experiences, and they strive to not happen again.2. Pay attention well all what others have to say, and the way they speak, and how to be their appearance when they speak, and much Hmaasaadhm in remember exactly what others have said.3. They are always ready to observe the reaction of the person and his body movements and gestures and facial language meaning, and then know what others feel towards them and are also aware of their feelings toward others.4. Not afraid to disclose their feelings whatsoever, ranging from anger to love to narrow, and they are aware of how they feel in every position.5. Have a full awareness of what is occurring around them, and often avoid falling victim to dangerous situations or life-threatening.6. Will know very well that they victors in the end, and they have confidence in this, and they know very well that they will not only win, but they will prevail, and because they are skilled to surround themselves with people who support them.7. Care about the small details and see the overall picture, enjoying everything no matter how small.8. Have a good memory, Inmunha through attention to what is happening around them and Muammn stand.9. Their decisions are often at work right, and the risks be the theme in mind, so they know all the details and options available to them and not be affected by peer pressure to compete.10. Sincere in their friendships, including intimate relations interface, because they know the reactions of others and have the ability to disclose emotions and feelings in a way that makes them reinforce their friendships, and because of their sense of upscale, they do not insult choose friends Oalrfaqae who had a negative influence in their lives
Part III :/ use codes to determine the type of personal
Understanding features fourteen of the character:(Halving humans)Over the centuries many writings appeared revolves around personal rating, and it is a list of glamorous, beginning Bjaln doctor ancient Greek passing Basj Monde Freud and Carl Jung, the end of the contemporary scholars self ...The others of scientists, such as Kathleen Hurley and Theodore Dobson ... Integrate these features in a board with nine points limited in order to clarify personal style, and nine patterns are (person assistant, and done, and observed, and romantic, and encounter, and peacemaker, and successful, and adventurer, and confinement).We had - through the ages / dire need of detection qualities Djidhalkhash us and how compliance with the universe and our place compared to us, and I have discovered humans they only through understanding good for themselves and others can understand what tremendous world around them and miracles.In order to assess the human personality, we must look deeper than external appearance, and we must test human behavior, it is these people? And how does it move? And how they match with themselves? And how to talk and what to say? .Features "qualities" Fourteen of the character:1 - Altanielma.2 - Almtghazl.3 - the victim.4 - cold.5 - coward.6 - liar.7 - narcissistic.8 - arrogant.9 - rival.10 - generous.11 - feisty.12 - fun.13 - naive.14 - good.Every manifestation of personal comprehensive analysis of four blades (speech, voice, body, face) from which it can determine the other person's personal style.
Psychological considerations:In your analysis of patterns of personal will examine people are heterosexual psychologically, and may have been suffering from some nerve, but they are still able to what they have to do is acceptable.It is important to know that there can not be a functioning due to some psychological problems personal Kanvsam, sick or injured heart كالجلطة brain ... Because those who suffer from personality disorders find it difficult to interact with others was reflected in what they say and how to say and looks serious and angry that appear on their faces.So here we must be aware of one fact that these cases do exist and we must put in mind when trying to analyze personality traits.
First impressions:May be possible you the opportunity once in most cases to be an impression of a person, where they can be available to you one chance to decide among those will work or build a relationship of friendship with him, and this is reflected necessity Note people, the more examined audio formats and verbal and facial expressions and the body of any person who was easy for you to read his character and accurately.It is not hard to be an opinion on anyone, and can take this impression in just a few seconds even worse Shi in first impressions dependence on little information, and it is unfortunate that people who judge others in this way base their decisions on intolerance, ignorance and passion.But in this book in detail helps not to configure such impressions and will also gives you information about patterns of figures and then you can configure the views of minutes and wise.
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