Many ask me about his love for those who do not like .. And in the vernacular (Itagly) .. That love does not love you or rather to give and do not take .. To give someone all your love and give some of the love .. And, God willing, in this article touch on this topic in its various forms even be true in the option to leave this man or keep him without pain ..
First is not necessarily to leave those who do not love us and it is important that we do not have a feeling it's a problem we are experiencing .. The basic idea of the article is either to leave loves you or not accept it as it is and wish him all the best .. And also I will answer all the questions that this mixer Thread Kara and choices you may find useful and find a solution ..
v How do you know he loves you or not? Was it in the past loves and now changed?
Who loves you can not change his feelings toward you .. Perhaps admiration and a sense of convergence in the beginning, but not love .. You probably also saw can not stand is accepted and did not tell you Stay away .. And in my opinion there is nothing wrong with that I do not like the disposal of a friend and it is better to tell him, and that has not changed we can not keep away from him or that Ntqublh as this .. Also appears on the rights known that he did not want liked or accompanied us and has the option and freedom not Nlomh in something not blame ourselves Valgulwb However Rahman ..
v How does not feel aggrieved or Bank Muti?
When you love one you love God .. Love for yourself .. She loves you want it .. It's worth your love .. Perhaps with time discovers that he does not deserve an iota of your time .. But do not regret a sense At this time you are required to these feelings Vamtn who was with you .. Even pain he considered a lesson from the lessons of life, not someone who wants to harm you .. But a lesson should be learned by this man ..
v How do you love him?
Love this man if he walked away or approached .. Heart Ahbbh and wished him all the best .. Love is pure love does not want the counterparty thing but it is loved for him ..
v How do you make friendliness despite dimension
Start in yourself Pettmnic good his and Bmsamehth .. Then do not impose yourself and do a lot of staying with him but always showed him well .. If attac need not give it back, but Be a good bold and tell him you did such and such is none of Boushima men .. Accept it with an open mind .. Believe me, stems from it will not leave him a good but people come to him and not him all the friendliness ..
v How come me?
Of the good stuff that brings you people Ruatk and without speaking .. Important to be sophisticated creation .. Near God is Christbb creation without your talk too much or do .. Also not Aatqadatk for yourself in that you do not deserve or you are not at the required level they are all the prisons and we set our minds to imprison souls have no templates mainly of Health .. You are wonderful and everyone wishes صحبتك and this is what you have to do and believe in him .. As well as Mark you interests and hobbies so that people turn to you .. Mark fun you talk to people like your council .. Helped others before they ask .. So come to you without speaking a word .. And do so without costing do for the good of your soul, people know his heart White of Poseur hypocrite ..
v How do you know that this person does not want you?
Perhaps feeling temporarily in that he does not want you, but that saw Alsdod him and his unwillingness to has صحبتك it indicates that he does not want you .. Sometimes be Alsdod your family or the people closest to you .. And often got me this position, but I was prepared to communicate and connect, but when long times Alsdod reached limit that does not open the door for me and they were present did not contact me means that they really do not want me, but I did not Odharhm something but at the same time myself on Aziza If they want closeness فبابي open and I Mtwajadda When wanted me .. But I will not be insulted myself more tired myself and Otabhm me, but I waited and they know Where يجدوني .. I put them an excuse or even hundreds of excuses the oil-rich kingdom and I wish them all the best and I know they will come back in the day ..
The one does not take care of you, but sophisticated.:. So leave it does not abound Altasfa
In people replace Turk comfort.:. At the heart of Habib's patience though Jaffa
What all of heart تهواه Ihuak.:. Nor each of Safeth you may description
If you do not disturb the WAC nature.:. There is nothing good in Wad comes Tklva
Not good in vinegar betray the mistress.:. And receives from affection Paljva
And deny living for may obsolescence his reign.:. It appears secretly yesterday had two layers of
Peace to the world if you do not.:. Friend sadooq sincere promise fair
Hair Imam Shafi'i
v How know human Maslahi?
Wonder of people who did not know them only from the days and ask me many requests .. I say to myself, this first day to request these requests, what he will do after a year .. If you see a man in this way does not cost yourself doing what cost do only things that you can do and if gone apologized for the implementation of the request .. Well you can stop him alone and tell him that if he wanted صحبتك it does not ask for anything and if you walked away you know that love repairmen .. But do not be sensitive with each one and feel that they want you to interests ..
v What is the meaning of ideals ((things Tnghebr Spirit to spirit))?
Every spirit there correspondence of lives and forced spirit that love you .. Mark people come to you Tayyip her sake .. And does not mean that this person Tayyip and Haluk I love it .. But life has no compatibility requirements or limitations .. Do not force yourself to love do not like .. Do not force anyone to love you ..
Nice to express your desire love of the other party and to express interest, but the large number of Yamit relationship and increases the dimension .. Do not make them feel blamed, but tell them how to behave with you and there is a difference between the two .. The first to say ((Link? Menzman What Venak? Lech ask)) .. The correct way ((thank you for that rose Afarahtna throughout the day and suspended at home .. interest was sophisticated and listening was the grandest)) ..
v Do age difference role or relationship?
There is nothing to do with age, but attention and thinking do not measure people their age but Pflm and blending of spirit .. There may be يصغرك years but the idea consistent with your mind .. Were it not for the different thought not intermingle life .. The difference is required .. Imagine there are 1000 person Ktbaek and Shaklak and strong personality will feel depressed and will not feel the pleasure and the sweetness of the difference .. To learn to accept everything life look different and to see everything that he has the wisdom and very ..
There is an important relationship with jam or father or administrator or someone you know us .. Etc. .. Probably thought that he loves us and we love but do not ask one to knit the same love .. Imagine that we are in a row and every person who puts his hands on the shoulder in front of every man gives love to the one in front of him and receives love from which his successor, what if someone exchange student love to mangle every grade .. As well as human life you love Vinqlh to others .. He wants this person to love just does not make anyone in his heart a man selfish heart is put to love and give and not be imprisoned feel in love with one man .. It is important in this relationship that is not demanding that loves you as you love That Satabk and he does .. Strange man that wants everybody you know to be the first in his heart and the other is not the first in our hearts, how we want them to what we do not .. The goal was to be the first in the heart of the other, but to build a great relationship incorrect ..
Do not ask anyone that loves you are not in a hurry to Love comes from the attitudes and ten and not impress .. There is no certain specifications for a friend, but there is a consensus lives .. I do not mean that there is no specification to make ourselves with humans did not live up himself and raises his spirit, but do not ask a brother without blemish, you will live without a brother ..
v What are the reasons that need not be Turk, but some people leave for that?
o misunderstandings (find them first misunderstanding away and this is a mistake)
o different Alotabaa (see the different typ It's fun and at the same time not all the difference in foul means Turk)
o differing views (the difference opinion does not invalidate the intimacy issue, even if everyone disagreed with us and we left the remaining two on the face of the earth together)
o error (of people leave for a small error is find a reason for after-Turk, if you see the mistakes of others and left them for it means that you do not see the mistakes yourself, and if you have to you have to tell him Bouktoh If no change can leave, but do not leave it so without advising him or tell him)
o failure to achieve what we want (do not make your happiness to others and which does not achieve your desire or asked for and what you want to knit and not loyal and dedicated, then leave people cause each other for him and I see no reason to leave)
v What are the reasons why you left
o free love (sometimes without the love of man, why force ourselves to sit with those who do not love, you are free to be with the person that you want, and who does not want to show him that, but at the same time do not force yourself on it)
o significant errors (find this man is full of mistakes and sins)
o request by separation (If you are prompted for the other that does not relate to and end the relationship)
o You are one of the reasons disturbed (if you are a heavy burden on people this is a reason to leave or a reason to change yourself and not be a heavy burden on a)
o dishonesty (theft or dishonesty is a strong reason to leave direct)
o temperament not be accepted by and is a potential (not all people Ttwaagaf with Otabaek and recipes, in other words, there are people who do not match with your character Neither Sedkathm nor accepting them and this is one of the reasons Turk)
v How not related to him and go from the heart?
Separation process, especially those who loved genuinely difficult and time .. And a lot of sadness and fatigue .. And sadness meaning beautifully tells us from احببناه what qualities of احببناه .. But believe me give you more than life takes you .. If you gone man Sabdlk God someone else or personal qualities or generous sustenance from Him but not this world will hereafter .. Allow yourself to express sadness and separation .. The takes sadness range so go away and leave and go .. Also human Nfariq from our hearts when we feel the certainty that they have to still our hearts and it was time to it ..
There is an exercise which can imagine this person and between your heart and heart rope Imagine that you go by your heart and wished him good and forgave him everything and imagine Agadrick .. Fill yourself with light and love to fill the vacuum resulting from this person ..
v how to be true resolutions to stay away?
Ask yourself these questions:
o Is it true love, mutual parties?
o how I want to be a relationship?
o the extent of the damage and how to take advantage?
o Are worthy and deserved?
o Do you want me and I want?
o What are the mistakes and what are its advantages?
o What happens if we move away?
o What are the things that if improved our relationship would have become the best?
o What are the questions that must Osilha resolutions be true?
o How Saptad the best way?
v How away?
Stay away either be dimension and reduce times to sit down with this person or frank dialogue direct, I'm not the best way to another, but you're determined the best way with the person and the best approach, nor was this decision only after careful consideration because after this dimension and dialogue will Vraca real and even if returned relationship will return a portion broken inside ..
Conclude an article for my brother Saudi writer brave Qahtani talking about the same meanings, but in a different way .. You can visit his website .. www.shouga.com
Cherry
There is stuck in my mind and my memory says: "The deception in love ugliest They devastating it is an irreparable loss, neither in time nor in the hope" .. It is the bitter truth and painful and tragic Valkhiana loss never compensate Each bidding when infidelity rupture and finished suicide Fmaqima all things and the only person closest to us wherever we were closest to our skin betray .. Give him love flower turning his hand to dagger Atanna, taught him how to love us and taught us how to hate.
How tragic it is that one discovers a betrayal of love to him and then lose the ability to love and ratify it.
We have asked Adib about hell? He said: It is the loss of the ability to love.
And how heartbreaking it is to reach one stage lose the ability to believe anything .. Anything at all.
But for good my friend .. German Valmthel you say: "There are important grief bone not hide time" and so is the case with minimum forever and ever and Imam Shafi'i says: "What every from تهواه Ihuak his heart ............ not each of Safeth you may description and old Alfolnde proverb also says: "The human Aakhadda only trust him," This is true because of us are skeptical difficult usually we deceive either of trust in us is unfortunately often succeed in deceiving based on this trust.
It is not shame my friend that loves human to Aabadelh love and not a defect that we discover the same moment and the sky poured evening in the veins of routes and walls of houses that beloved, long أحببناه honestly and depth deceive us and betray us but real mistake is that Neptzl ourselves to seek and love of not memorized our love and friendliness. But the towering height question: When one up to this moment of separation from the final and complete conviction that slammed doors and windows, including his feelings in front of outlets like? Indeed, this moment comes from their own automatically If the mind does not understand the idea of normal death and buried the body in the dirt, the heart to Aistoab thought death passion and buried it between the ribs ..
In a moment which is usually not the moment of anger, but to his luck purity and read deep self and wounded and memories and disappointment and deprivation, one finds himself arrived by train meditation to the depths of self and a sense of a final decision to stop giving and giving despite the fact that love, especially the great love remains a threat even as he lay dying scary Even in moments of his death .. In a critical moment and one fateful decide to come out beloved of his heart for the first time to see quite clearly .. Then up to final mask complete, that the words will not change anything and will not start a fire in the fireplace cold and will not revive the withered flowers in the pot .. Everything went .. Valrih will not knock on the window again.
Perhaps one of the most beautiful stories that tells the story of how the healing of love anything concerning him self a nice story for "Zorba" entitled "Cherry" and Madha that someone he loved cherry and decided to recover from his passion and his love for the cherry to eat it too much so much Atakioh and then treated like any other other fruit and technique worked and healed of his passion for cherries and then applied this theory with all things and things that feel that it is controlled by beating .. This what should you do here my friend instead of escape from the memories and nostalgia and trying to busy them tried to sit with yourself a little bit and recalled all the details that the mind until you feel nauseous and grief and agony and then throw it in the sea forgetfulness rather than remain outstanding and Mtoukdh from time to time and position to another Tazpk Tojek Atraqk ........
Try to deal with this beloved traitor as he did his cherry so you can dealings like the rest of humanity as it is able to be treated like the rest of the fruit cherry.
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